There is the girl at Uni i have liked for over 8 months, but i have stayed back because of a boyfriend. There is going to be a 4 month break where i wont see her.
i want to tell her i am interested incase anything happens between them in break.
If i say - "If you didn't have a boyfriend and i asked you out, would you have said yes? "
she is a semi friend, and we do get on very well.
how would you react if someone said that to you?
plus im planning on pretty much bringing it up quick in the conversation.
2006-10-21 15:37:51 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think that would be fine to ask. She will definetly get the idea that you like her and you are not being offensive by saying it that way.
2006-10-21 15:40:09 · answer #1 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd be flattered. You're being respectful and mindful of the fact that she does have a boyfriend.
You might put her on the spot, though, since you're in effect asking her if she's attracted to you, and if she isn't, that could have a negative effect on your friendship. If she does find you attractive, however, your question may cause her to look at you in a new light, which might lead to something.
In any case, it's a respectful and flattering way of expressing yourself, so that part is all good! Good Luck!
2006-10-21 15:47:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anna S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be flatered, but I would also need to know how long she has been dating this guy. I mean if it is for years, then you probably do not have a chance, but if it is only for a few months, great. I would not be mad if you told me that, then again everyone is different
2006-10-21 15:40:57 · answer #3 · answered by ridingis4life 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You SHOULD bring it up quickly, and ask in a half-jokingly matter, that way if shethinks you like her, and she doesnt care, you both will be fine. BUT if she doesnt, you can always say, 'lol just kidding'
but yeah, good luck!
2006-10-21 15:42:40 · answer #4 · answered by Yulieth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, you can say that. And since you're semi-friends, she won't freak out so much. It shouldn't be so hard.
Good luck
2006-10-21 15:47:10 · answer #5 · answered by Read the nametag, Duh! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not have a try, just give yourself a chance.
2006-10-21 15:42:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would consider it. i wouldn't have a really astonished reaction.
2006-10-21 15:44:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋