My first boyfriend is currently feeling very upset because i had suddenly left him without letting him know and find another boyfriend. I decided to leave because i had proved myself that he has been going around with another girl in another school. I thought i could get away from him but i couldnt because we are in the same college and he is my second neighbouring classroom. I can tell he wants me back and i still love him. The same thing happens i had also proved that my new boyfriend still has some connections with his previous girl friend and therefore i decided to end our friendship immediately after i found out. However he doesnt want us to stop and he keeps calling me but i never turn up to speak to him. He is in a different college, i still love him too.
2006-10-21 15:34:20 · 4 answers · asked by Ms kayro 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think that with all your feeling coming back and that you still love him you forget why you left him in the first place...
"I decided to leave because i had proved myself that he has been going around with another girl in another school"
if he was cheating on you, then your smarter than that. your going to have to find a way to let go, even though its really, really hard to do it, and even when he doesnt stop calling.
its tuff, it really is even when you still care for them.
all i know is to truly move on, forgive them, took to the future and just let them go. think positives and dont go back, otherwise youll be stuck in an endless loop.
2006-10-21 15:45:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say, make it plain and clear that you don't want to talk to them. they will keep pestering you, get the capus security involved. tell them that this guy keeps bothering you.
once you are able to get the creaps off your back, take a small break from dating... be single for a while... then look at what you realy want in a boyfriend... to pick two cheaters in a row, is not good, and says that the way you choose is a little lacking...
just my thoughts...
2006-10-21 15:39:52 · answer #2 · answered by Junior1544 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Choose none get a start fresh. You want a guy who is into you only and you are only into him only. Not all this drama. I hope you don't like drama!!
2006-10-21 15:38:16 · answer #3 · answered by sandiiiiii 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you see yourself marrying either? realisticly.
2006-10-21 15:39:10 · answer #4 · answered by Noone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋