I know my guy is doing the best he can right now, but I'm tired of feeling neglected...
2006-10-21 15:04:41 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's busy in college... I've gone weeks without seeing him. He said he doesn't know when things are going to get better.
2006-10-21 15:15:32 · update #1
just do what your heart tells u to do your the only one that can make it better or make it worse here on out!!! TAKE TIME AND THINK IS THIS RELATIONSHIP REALLY WORTH SAVING OR LOSING?? DO YOU REALLY LOVE HIM LIKE YOU USE TO!!! CAN YOU FIND SOMEONE ELSE TO LOVE YOU LIKE HE LOVES YOU??
GOOD LUCK :)
2006-10-23 03:56:38 · answer #1 · answered by shorty_2_us 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look this is where the old as time questions comes in,"What do women want?", look your guy is probably working hard and he has little or no time for you, but have you thought that maybe he is doing it for you so when you 2 go out he has enough money to show you a good time, so you are tired of being neglected, so what if you where working and he was in your place, huh? You didn't think about that, what if you where working and you really tried to make time for him but he just wasn't having it, do you think it's a good excuse? So your complaning about your man working too much when other women are complaining about their man going out and messing with other women, DO YOU think it's a good idea or good excuse to break up with him, DO YOU? Think about it really hard before you mess it up, because it's true women are more in touch with their feelings and emotions then men but remeber this men NEVER FORGET!
2006-10-21 15:14:47 · answer #2 · answered by zkull_1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My ex was too busy for me too.. he said he was doing the best he could also so that he could build his business move here and marry me. I did some checking up on the Internet and found out Sean had gotten back with his ex, i contacted her then she found out about five other women besides us. So yes it could be a very good excuse for breaking up.. Do some google searches put in his name or his handle city he lives in etc. Don't forget to check at dontdatehimgirl.com and womansavers.com.
He could be doing what he is saying but better to be safe then sorry.
2006-10-21 15:19:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is a good excuse if you are tired or feeling neglected. People that care need to make time for the people they care about. Sometimes busy people can take that for granted. However, if you knew he was busy or is ecpecting to much time I agree with the other poster. Find more things to do...make him miss you.
2006-10-21 15:08:27 · answer #4 · answered by exhaling2day 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your married no.
If your dating.......yes.
When I dated my X.....he was constantly busy, always making more money. Always saying I would thank him someday for working so hard and busy. I NEVER thanked shim for being absent from the relationship.
If you love the guy ....love might NOT be enough to keep the relationship good. You have to know what you need in a man. And one thing is to be NOT that busy.
You can give and give to him and if he doesn't give back then you will be drained....empty and resentful which leads to bitterness.
If the guy is too busy....if might not even miss you.
2006-10-21 15:11:26 · answer #5 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to start spending time with you or u will start finding someone else that will not be too busy with you I am dating someone that is working 2 jobs yet always finds the time to hang out with me so tell him or move on to someone better !!
2006-10-21 15:06:31 · answer #6 · answered by AngelVirgo9206 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's he "busy" doing? If he is busy improving himself with like college, then stick with him. If he is busy watching the game with the guys then start seeing other people!
2006-10-21 15:07:48 · answer #7 · answered by yelodaise 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Like joyceela said,keep up with a life.But I personally am curious as to how busy is he?
2006-10-21 15:12:19 · answer #8 · answered by locksniffer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to break up with him..He is not your only thing to do in life.. Go out and have fun..live your life..and when you met up with him..you spend time with him...You do not have to sit at home awaiting.
2006-10-21 15:05:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes that is usually another term for I have someone else and do not have time for you anymore . move on and forget this piece of pond life.
2006-10-21 15:06:26 · answer #10 · answered by Kate T. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋