a boy asked me out and now he has other plans like getting married and having babies. and im only nine what do i do hes really hot,hot.
2006-10-21 14:36:13 · 7 answers · asked by pupkitty86 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
youre nine? go play TAG honey 9 is way to early to be playing with boys. Youre too y oung to know what being hot is. Where is your parents?
2006-10-21 14:38:15 · answer #1 · answered by Angela C 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You're nine? How old is he? He asked you out, and you're nine? I am terrified for your parents.
Unless you're in some country where it's legal to get married at nine, marriage isn't really on a to do list for you. That will be at least nine years away, unless your parents decide to make you someone else's problem and sign you away earlier.
Babies? Well, dear, that is a whole other issue. I just sent a reply to a seventh grader on bed rest because her baby is low in her uterus and she doesn't want to miss out on school.
I hope that you find a grown up woman to talk to about all of this. Your mom, an aunt, a family friend, your stepmother, a friend's much older sister. Find someone! Marriage, sex, and babies are very grown up things. And, you, my dear, are NINE. Dolls are great. Babies are NOT dolls. They scream, cry, throw up on your clothes, pee on you, and then scream some more. Trust me, you don't want to be one of those girls staying home with the screaming baby while your friends are at a party, or the mall, or college. Young men disappear when you get pregnant, and you could be left alone dealing with a crying, sick, puking baby at 16. You don't want that.
If he is a lot older than you, then steer clear of him. He probably doesn't realize that you're nine. Find a boy close to your age to talk to and chase around. Older boys want things you may not be ready for, and may regret later. I know this first hand. I dated a 20 year old at 14, and I did things I will regret for the rest of my life.
Please be careful out there, and know that the choices you make right now can follow you for the rest of you life. You'll want things as you get older, and making a wrong choice can change your future forever.
2006-10-21 21:52:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OH my! Go play hard to get till you're about 20....seriously? how old is this boy that he's talking marriage and babies. I'd stay away from him honey! It sounds like something that's only going to cause you a lot of pain and heartache along the way...along with all the ginormous amounts of trouble you'd probably end up in...
2006-10-21 22:23:54 · answer #3 · answered by "Urban" 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OH MY GOSH listen hun you need to think about other things like playing with your friends, watching cartoons and playing with barbies you can worry about boys later and if anything you need to be talking to your mom and if you don't feel comfortable talking to your mom then talk to another female in the family, and how old is this boy??
2006-10-22 00:54:29 · answer #4 · answered by ashley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Walk away. If he's serious, definitely walk away. And tell your parents. You're only nine.....you have plenty of time for boys. Oh, and looks aren't everything.
2006-10-21 21:39:39 · answer #5 · answered by saraebrat 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are only 9????!!!! You are way too young to have a boyfriend! Well at least you got good spelling and grammer. Lol.
2006-10-21 21:41:15 · answer #6 · answered by Angela15 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
LOL!!!
Wow. That's cute.
Don't be his girlfriend... seriously... boys only get you in trouble.
(and since when did 9 year olds know what "hot" meant in regards to someones appearance??????? lordy lordy.)
2006-10-21 21:43:31 · answer #7 · answered by Ashley P 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋