I was talking with my guy friend and he said it drives guys crazy when girls cry. I mean, do we just look so pidiful and cute that it breaks your hearts? I can't understand this and I'd really like to know whether it's ok to cry in front of guys or not. I mean, don't get me wrong, I love to be held and consoled when I'm crying but do guys like it too? I just want to know how this male emotion that God made works. Why does it bother you when us girls cry? Guys, tell me what your hearts feel and what your thoughts are when a girl cries in front of you. Whether it be your girl friend or just a friend or whatever.
2006-10-21 14:33:24 · 19 answers · asked by christinika8705 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Its just a male thing. They most want to protect us as god intended them to do, not hurt us or see us hurt it goes against the original plan.
2006-10-21 14:36:18 · answer #1 · answered by BabyPrincess REAL JAMAICAN QUEEN 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My sister-in-regulation were given my brother, both one in each and every of my nephews, 3 of my nephew's acquaintances, her father, the guy that lives next door to her & about 5 little boys to cry all mutually. She fell & stopped respiratory. We very nearly lost her that afternoon. The paramedics did a astonishing job. She is advantageous.
2016-12-05 02:17:14 · answer #2 · answered by Erika 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to see girls cry, they look so sad - all I want to do is see that smile back on her beautiful face! Well for me it is something special actually when a girl cries with me because there are so many girls that are ashamed of letting their feelings show, it shows that they trust me enough to allow themselves to display that much emotion. And YES it does activate that protector-kind of feeling.
2006-10-21 14:40:17 · answer #3 · answered by Superboyfriend 1 · 9⤊ 0⤋
well its probably because the guy made her cry in the first place...and it makes you feel bad because you know if you care about the person then you never want to see them cry.
2006-10-21 14:36:44 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just so you know i am a girl but i think we should be able to cry in front of our boys cuz if they are true bf's they should help us when in need. it may make them feel kinda guilty that we are crying so they don't like watching us cry. who honestly likes watching others cry.
2006-10-21 14:36:38 · answer #5 · answered by odd one 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All guys are different about it. Some will try to comfort a girl about it or some will get mad and frustrated about it. Usually they will comfort you because they care, if they are frustrated with you then that means that they just want you to grow up about it and not to be immature.
2006-10-21 14:36:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Either annoys them or it makes them feel powerless to help which goes against a decent guy's need to feel like a protector.
2006-10-21 14:35:04 · answer #7 · answered by *babydoll* 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think they don't know what to do. They are helpless. Guys don't feel comfortable when girls cry.
2006-10-21 14:37:44 · answer #8 · answered by hot stuff 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
women have a "mothers instinct" and guys have a "guardian instinct". girls react to comfort a person in pain and a guy feels he must protect the person and keep them safe. to answer those questions just think how you feel when you see a baby crying and that is close to how we feel.
2006-10-21 14:44:43 · answer #9 · answered by evil Hesh 6 · 13⤊ 0⤋
They dont want them to cry if the split
2006-10-21 14:35:32 · answer #10 · answered by Shelby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋