I've been cryin' because thiis guy that I really like came to my house today and he had to go like 2 min... after he came over sayin he had to go because he's kids were cryin so he had to leave and i cooked and everything and he didn't even stay;...... I was so upsert cause he did't call me yetesterday so I thought he didn't think he 2wanted to be bothered...so when he called me tonite and when he saiid he was comin over I cooked..;;but he left like 2 min after he came....and He does have a girl.... but Im so upset and I ha ve been cryin for the lasty two hours,,,,what shhoud I do...l
2006-10-21 14:18:13 · 21 answers · asked by minnie26ny 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Learn English?
2006-10-21 14:20:57 · answer #1 · answered by Narcissa Venus M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Having expectations of a guy that has children and a woman is the reason you are crying. If you didn't have any expectations then you wouldn't be crying... do you see what I am saying. You are lucky you got two minutes with him. Is this the kind of relationship you want? Is this the kind of man you want to be in love with? He is a cheater and if he is doing it to her he will do it to you. If he is leading you to think you are all he cares about and he loves you and wants only you, don't believe him, he is a lying sack of s**t.
I know you are hurting but two hours is not that bad, try 10 months.. I cried and still cry over a cheating loser just like him.
2006-10-21 14:30:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, if you are creeping with this dude and he has a girl already, be prepared for him to always have "something to do" and pretty much never have any real time for you. There are probably about 5 or 6 more girls like you on the side. My advice, drop the loser and find you a man you don't have to share. That way when you cook, he'll actually have time to sit down and eat.
2006-10-21 14:23:30 · answer #3 · answered by Trice 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So he's got children and he's already in a relationship. And you're upset just because he didn't eat your dinner?
I'd imagine his children and existing partner would be more upset if they found out you're trying to split-up their family.
He probably came over to tell you it's over. Then discovered you had gone to the effort of cooking a meal, so backed out. That's why he left after 2 minutes. He couldn't find the courage to split.
Find a single guy. This one is already taken and has people that need him.
2006-10-21 14:31:56 · answer #4 · answered by Cracker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well do you think you are obsessed with this guy? If you do, then you must realize that is not a healthy outlook for any relationship. If he feels like you are too needy, he will most certainly back off. If what i am saying is true (because I dont know you) then perhaps you need to make an agreement with yourself, that you are going to change the relationship, and try to distance yourself from him. You may decide to do this, if you feel your current position is beginning to cause you grief (harm), and if you are crying this much, it sure seems like you need to make a change. Love isnt supposed to hurt like this. Sounds like you need to find a healthy relationship, or no relationship, until you figure out how this one went south. Best wishes.
2006-10-21 14:23:44 · answer #5 · answered by progest 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to do whats best for yourself, if this guy can't even stay more than 2 minutes at your house after you try so hard he's not worth it. Find someone else who will love you and appreciate you for what you do.
2006-10-21 14:22:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should honer this other womans territory is what you should do1 Would you want your man to go out on you and leave you with his kids while he is out loy riding some other woman?!?!? No you prolly wouldn't like that. Women need to respect other women. That is why we have alot of kids with no dads cause they are already tied up with someone else!
2006-10-21 14:22:37 · answer #7 · answered by girlie9801 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you are upset and I know you are hurt, but if he has a girl already, you need to move on, let him go. There are plenty of other guys out there that would treat you like a queen.You deserve better than this.
2006-10-21 14:23:39 · answer #8 · answered by awagner1971 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should leave him alone. He does belong to someone else! You deserve a man who can spend time with you and give you the attention that you need. You should set higher standards for yourself. Don't settle for less than what you deserve.
2006-10-21 14:26:22 · answer #9 · answered by mz_decarlosanthony 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont waste ur time on him ,he's not worth ur time , u need a guy thats is going 2 appriciate u & what u do
2006-10-21 14:55:42 · answer #10 · answered by dude 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋