I was talking to my boyfriends best friend and he said if a girl cheats on her man she's a whore, and if a guy cheats he's misguided. We got in such an argument, now my boy friends mad at me. What do you make of this and why is that statement even considered right??
2006-10-21 14:15:43 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
where you talking to your boy friend's best friend because you two were contemplating making a whore out of you? How dare you try to misguide that gentleman.
2006-10-22 00:35:55 · answer #1 · answered by steve b 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The statement is not considered right. For any man to think that way, just shows how ignorant he is. This thing goes both ways, so men have been whoring around for a long time.
2006-10-21 21:23:49 · answer #2 · answered by LadyJ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
One thing I have learned: You are the company you keep.
If your boyfriend was mad at you for disagreeing with such an inane comment then he might think the same way...in other words, that it is more acceptable for a guy than it is for a girl to do that. Sounds like his friend is a chauvinist, and he might be too.
You may want to think about this relationship a little more.
2006-10-21 21:21:04 · answer #3 · answered by Barbara 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is the way men think, even the ones that won't admit it. On some level they think they have more of a right to multiple partners, that it is more tolerable for them to cheat, they blame it on biology. Its BS. A whore is someone who sells sex for money. I don't even have any advice for you, I am just so angry on your behalf I wanted to say something. Dare them to share their opinion with every female they talk to. That will shut them up.
2006-10-21 21:30:43 · answer #4 · answered by BLANK 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Typical sexism. Unfortunately, that's the way so much of society thinks. Or at least, that's the way so many men think.
P.S. If your boyfriend's mad at you for disagreeing with that statement...then he sounds like a real loser. Go get yourself a real man!
2006-10-21 21:20:14 · answer #5 · answered by Jess H 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is a stupid and uneducated statements and shows just how messed up the world today. I don't know why it considered right but us women need to help change this view.
2006-10-21 21:20:55 · answer #6 · answered by BabyPrincess REAL JAMAICAN QUEEN 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you had every right to express how you felt after all he expressed how he felt. Why is your boyfriend taking sides. Boys want to do wrong and get away with it, so they tell themselves dumb things like that.
2006-10-21 21:21:45 · answer #7 · answered by barbie2 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The guy who said it is an idiot. Forget him and your BF , your man should have your back..
2006-10-21 21:23:03 · answer #8 · answered by Blueoceanla 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
thats bs if a girl cheats on a guy shes so cool if a guy cheats on a girl hes a ****** up son of a *****
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oh i was jk about a girl being cool yeah if a girl cheats she is a whore its true
2006-10-21 21:21:46 · answer #9 · answered by lily 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋