I asked this earlier ..but I forgot to add some details..
f your interested in someone that you go to church with , what is the best way to ask them out?
I just met this guy, he is really nice and we get along great. In this day and age is it to forward for a girl to ask a guy out? If it is okay should ask him out to something informal like coffee?
Additional Details
So since I just started going to the same church should I wait a few weeks before bringing it up?
2006-10-21 14:11:42 · 12 answers · asked by Blueoceanla 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would wait, watch, and listen. Find out more about the kind of person he is and if he is available. You are new to the church so you don't wan to appear too "fast". Perhaps you can go out as a group with other young single members and just get to know each other.
Best Wishes!!
2006-10-21 14:14:05 · answer #1 · answered by poetic princess 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Going to church is not the ticket to pick up people! If you've known him for a week, give yourself time and get to know him really well before you get involved that way. I knew my girlfriend for a little over 2 weeks before I asked her to be my girlfriend so it CAN happen fast... but you should be careful with your heart, think of his needs and things like that to see if he's what you want before you bare your heart to him. He might return your feelings, or might need time to get to know you better and maybe discover he is interested in you.
2006-10-21 14:16:16 · answer #2 · answered by Superboyfriend 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, try something simple like lunch or coffee or a hike or bike ride or anything that is not to costly and not to difficult, just go slow, don't expect to much.
2006-10-21 14:17:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is fine, but keep it very simple. Meet for coffee, somewhere nice. Pick a place that you know will have a nice booth where you can talk and no loud music.
2006-10-21 14:16:15 · answer #4 · answered by Isis 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, sometimes honesty is the best. Would you feel o.k. asking him, "We've met recently, would it be o.k. if I invited you for a cup of coffee after the church, or would you think me too forward"?
2006-10-21 14:23:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go ahead and ask him out, unless your church is very conservative. If your church is more conservative, try inviting him to something church related.
2006-10-21 14:15:17 · answer #6 · answered by Kuji 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him out this is the 21 century nothing is wrong with you asking him
2006-10-21 14:14:29 · answer #7 · answered by BabyPrincess REAL JAMAICAN QUEEN 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Men ask women out. If he doesn't ask you out, he wasn't that interested in you.
2006-10-21 14:14:59 · answer #8 · answered by SweetBrunette 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ask him to lunch as friends a few times and see how things go then if all is well go for it....
2006-10-21 14:13:57 · answer #9 · answered by Tink 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
usually people ask me out. but it's totally fine to ask a guy out, and if you're nervous, ask him to be friends
2006-10-21 14:13:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋