He is the strong silent type that is extremly good looking who can also be standoffish and stuck up at times. His mother is a French(his mom's French and his dad is American) fashion designer and even offered me to model for her clothes.I was on a magazine cover with him once and was recognized in the fashion world quickly. I'm getting quite a bit of offers to model but he doesn't want me to. He told me that an innocent person like me would be taken advantage of since he has seen it all in the modeling world. I personally think he doesn't want me to do it because he gets protective of me if guys notice me. i don't get jealous of girls asking him for his autograph and such so why should he for me?
2006-10-21 14:11:20 · 7 answers · asked by Britney S 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should model if that's what you want to do, but don't hate him for trying to be protective of you. Also, if he sees that you have your own thing goin on and other guys are looking at you, he may change his tune and be a little sweeter to you.
2006-10-22 08:47:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like this guy is a bit controlling... for him to say don't do it because you'll be taken advantage of is not exacly; completly; true... he could pretty easily prevent that by helping you do it, and being there with you... maybe using the same agent???
it sounds like he wants to control the relationship... I'm also the strong silent type, but if my gf wanted to be a model, I'd not discourage her, I'd start reading online all the info i could find online to try to help her do it...
if you've had offers to be a model from different people, I would say, look around online, talk to other woman that are models, and find a good agent, and then go do it...
tell your bf that this is what you want to do, and if he's trying to control you, then to get out, if he's trying to protect you, then help you...
just my thoughts...
2006-10-21 21:17:02 · answer #2 · answered by Junior1544 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From your question, it sounds like you are pretty much done with him. Go after the modeling gig. Meet another male model. Experiance life. Dont let ANYONE shelter you (hopefully you are over 18). He isnt your husband, and it doesnt sound like you want to marry him. Take a new path. LIVE!
2006-10-21 21:15:40 · answer #3 · answered by progest 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not over protective over possessive! if he truly loves you he would encourage your dream and if you need protecting then he can step in. but if he blocks you in doing this you might have to leave him to become the best you can be. boyfriends come and go but opportunities like this are very rare and may never happen again! but the choice, and consequences, are yours to make.(and im available!)
2006-10-21 21:33:59 · answer #4 · answered by evil Hesh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take the job offers...dump the boyfriend.
2006-10-21 21:13:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is selfish and doesn't want to share the spotlight. Dump him!!
2006-10-21 21:14:29 · answer #6 · answered by larechiga26 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for it! who cares what he thinks. if he really loved you he would let you follow your dreams!
2006-10-21 21:14:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋