im dating several women at the same time and got more wanting to go out,i dont try to sleep with any of them but let them make that decision and all but one has chosen to do so,i make no promises or lead any of them on but i guess im just passing time till i really click with someone.i know its not exactly right but i cant seem to say no to them when they are ready to go,if you know what i mean and its usually on the second date they make the decision to sleep with me,should i not sleep with them if i know theres really no future in it or just enjoy myself for the time being
2006-10-21 14:04:12 · 14 answers · asked by k70 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you are being up front with them and letting them know your just friends and not looking for a commitment then it shouldn't be a problem just never lead them on and make them think its more than what it really is if they choose to sleep with you that's what they what so hey keep plenty of condoms handy and have fun and let them know you do see other ladies and they can see other men its ok with you
2006-10-21 14:11:48 · answer #1 · answered by teresa d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WhOa!! It's good to know that you actually know it's wrong!! Well.. i think some of those women just wanna get tapped! That might sound kind of dumb.. but really i do think so. I mean come on now... i have to say there are women out there who do.. not just men sleep around. Well anyways.. i mean are you in a relationship now where theres one women who thinks she's the only one your coming home to?? Cause if there is than.. damn rite you better stop sleeping with all these women!
2006-10-21 14:14:21 · answer #2 · answered by Keylee D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually, dating is the prelimary dance to making a final committment to one person. Apparantly you are playing the field right now. As long as you are being honest to these women and to yourself it should be okay. Be smart and use protection. STDs and unwanted pregnancies are not good. It could get complicated. There is a reason for the saying that 'Hell hath no fury like the woman scorned'. It is true. We woman can be ferral cats when we feel like we have been betrayed or mislead. Be careful. Good luck.
2006-10-21 14:10:19 · answer #3 · answered by sherrylynn1965 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes...young men and women should date several people, but I dont suggest having sex with any, unless it is consentual and with protection...BE SURE TO WRAP IT UP!!
But I advocate dating...how else are you gonna know what type of person suites you best? Sow you oats while you can, when you settle down and get married, there is less a risk that you will feel like you "missed something" later on.
2006-10-21 14:08:38 · answer #4 · answered by tpoke24 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is probably not good if there are so many of them. I think that once you pick one to sleep with, you need to stop seeing the others. It's okay to date more than one as in an open relationship, but you should try to simply pick one to sleep with as I said.
2006-10-21 14:08:10 · answer #5 · answered by aanstalokaniskiodov_nikolai 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be shallow. Don't sleep with women just cause your lonely and pathetic. And try dating one at a time then maybe they'll actually tink its worth going out on a second date with a slob like you.
2006-10-21 14:06:35 · answer #6 · answered by 1st time prego 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are being honest with them all, and with yourself, no problem.
If you think the longterm effects of just "empty" sleeping around are good, you are mistaken. If you don't care about the people, your own issues will get you. If you do, then you acquire more family and have to deal with that.
2006-10-21 14:07:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you are being honest with them it is completely ok. If they know that you and they are not mutually exclusive( dating just each other) and you are making them no promises then I say you go big guy, and we should all have such problems
2006-10-21 14:07:27 · answer #8 · answered by snoop_dougie_doug04 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Treat each woman with respect and enjoy the company of as many as will choose to return the honor.
2006-10-21 14:05:31 · answer #9 · answered by Isis 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do they all know that you're dating other people? if so, then they probably don't care that there's no future in it any more than you do. if not, TELL THEM BEFORE YOU GO OUT WITH THEM.
2006-10-21 14:10:37 · answer #10 · answered by fireflower413 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋