So I got out of a serious relationship about four months ago. The relationship was about 16 months long. She left me for a male model thats, pretty much, loaded. I don't really do anything now, cause my Ex, pretty much, took over all of my friends. So I don't go out anymore. All I do and work, go to school and go home. I think I'm ready to try again, but nothing too serious. I think my problem is that.....I really don't know how anymore. So if yall could give me some tips or anything. It would be greatly appershated.
2006-10-21 14:00:14 · 9 answers · asked by darkstang535 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to find some friends to go out with looking for ladies. They give you support and you have a good time even if you don't meet any girls instead of looking desperate and lonely. Contact old friends that didn't know your Ex, suggest drinks after work with co-workers or maybe some dudes you know from the rec center. Build yourself a strong foundation so that anyone special who comes along will just be a welcome addition to your social circle instead of the keystone that you crumble without. (Sorry for the corny analogy).
2006-10-21 14:08:06 · answer #1 · answered by BLANK 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all u gotta do is start talking to other girls.. i mean she is not the only girl in this world... there are many people and u just gotta wait till u find the perfect person 4 u... truth is tht however long life takes u ... there will b tht 1 girl hu u hav luved in the corner of your mind... dont give up... i m in the same condition as u... but i jus think about it... enjoy a relationship while it lasts... it can't go on 4ever and so do u gotta move on with life... gud luk!
2006-10-21 21:05:55 · answer #2 · answered by prabhat v 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just remember to go to places that will have girls you have something in common with. Don't ever bring up your last girlfriend in a conversation. As you have in this question. You will get categorized as a rebounder. Even though that may not be the case. However, you should fight for your Friends! They will be the best source for meeting girls that they think you'd like.
2006-10-21 21:10:32 · answer #3 · answered by delux_version 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i hear you brother! i have been there and done that! what i did was start to move in different circles(in my case i went to a church youth group and hung out with guys from work). eventually i started dating people i met through them. you can try doing a sport, go to a pcyc, anything to get out of the house and to stop feeling sorry for yourself. in case your interested that girl that did it to me tried to come back because he hit her and cheated on her. i said no. so karma does strike back.
2006-10-21 21:17:40 · answer #4 · answered by evil Hesh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-10-21 21:03:09 · answer #5 · answered by lushy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay so just go out to a bar or club whichever and see what happens, make new friends.
2006-10-21 21:04:20 · answer #6 · answered by dns618 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just relax be yourself and don't rush into anything...When you least expect it love 3will come knocking on your door.
2006-10-21 21:04:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well just look around, there are a lot of girls who dont only care about money. try iMing some local girls. good luck
2006-10-21 21:05:07 · answer #8 · answered by Lees' 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be yourself and dont act like somone you arent
2006-10-21 21:03:18 · answer #9 · answered by someone_you_wish_you_knew 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋