tisfied? I would like to read about the answers from ladies,too.
2006-10-21 13:52:24 · 15 answers · asked by edd 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ditch the b*tch
2006-10-21 13:54:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well, sometimes you feel you have to pretend because if he doesn't realise then it's better than him thinking you've gone off him or that he's to blame in some way. Sometimes you just feel you can't say no -especially when he's really keen to have sex that night - at times like that it's easier to just pretend otherwise he'll keep on trying to please you, or want to know what's wrong. One girl I know even got accused of cheating when her boyfriend thoght she wasn't satisfied by him. He just didn't understand that she might not have been in the mood because she'd been at work all day. So it's not always possible to be honest about it.
For sure, if your girlfriend keeps pretending then you should feel hurt and puzzled.
2006-10-21 21:00:27 · answer #2 · answered by lianhua 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey dont get down on your girlfriend for lying about it, she obvioulsy felt like she couldnt tell you that she wasnt satisfied...guys HAVE to understand that not all girls like the same things, just like guys, so you have to find the right tune for eachother...be more open to her, pay more attention to her likes and dislikes, ASK her what she likes! If you want to be a good partner, you have to care about the other person and be in tune iwth their body...trust me, from a girls point of view, its alot sexier if a guy is paying attention to you--dont be like an annoying turn off with the questions, just be open to her guiding you in the right direction.
2006-10-21 21:12:39 · answer #3 · answered by Olivia N 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd start applying myself to becoming a better lover - imagine her surprise when she won't have to pretend anymore? Learn as much as you can about the female anatomy and erogenous zones; if you can speak about such things with eachother, ask her what she likes and what you can do to send her into the next star system! Trust me, she'll love you for it!
2006-10-21 21:01:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anna S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DON'T get angry and DON'T dump her, if you actually love her you can definitely get through this.
first of all, why hasn't she really been satisfied? don't get angry or yell at her (i don't understand why you would want to at all) just ask her what the problem was. figure out what YOU can do to help her.
remember, the reason she was pretending was probably because she wanted you to enjoy it and didn't want to make you feel embarrassed like you maybe do now. she was doing it for YOU. getting mad at her is totally unreasonable. it just means she loves you and she's a good girlfriend. now try to help her so it's as good for her as it is for you. be a good boyfriend like she's being good to you.
2006-10-21 21:01:51 · answer #5 · answered by fireflower413 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well for some guys they really want to satisfy you, which is good, but sometimes you almost feel under pressure to orgasm which makes it harder, and to make him feel better and to make him stop too cos sometimes they wont until you orgasm. Its not meant to be mean to the guy or anything, your trying not to hurt his feelings but obviously not good to do it all the time. so dont be mad at her for it, she does it for your benefit but try talk to her and ask her how ye can change things and tell her you would prefer she didnt pretend
2006-10-21 21:13:58 · answer #6 · answered by ash1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Edd,
She probably 'did 'it' with another guy and claiming rape...or is seeking attention in which case you need to get down there and do what makes her happy.
2006-10-22 00:47:52 · answer #7 · answered by Tatiana 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She was doing it ,to make you feel good, just like she is not going to tell you that you have a small wanker, she is also not going to tell you that you suck in bed
2006-10-21 21:07:20 · answer #8 · answered by Blackdog 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your girlfriend may think that it would make you think that you aren't satisfying her unless she orgasms.you need to talk it through with her.once she realises that you are OK with it she may relax and not need to pretend anymore.
2006-10-22 01:03:30 · answer #9 · answered by myluce 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her why she did this and find out what you can do to fix the promble.... all it takes is for you two to talk things out and fimd out what you both want in each other....it the little things that matter in and out of bed...
2006-10-21 20:57:45 · answer #10 · answered by is420legal 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
obvisouly the male fails to please her sexualy and she dont orgasm she fake's soo the male dont get hurt feelings.. woman dont think that it hurt more to be lied to.
what else could she lie about?
2006-10-21 22:57:31 · answer #11 · answered by Ben 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋