I'm really shy around girls i think are cute?

Question

There are many cute girls in my school but I never know what to say and if i do say something its something stupid.

Answer 1

In school, everyone is nervous - even the girls. No one wants to make a fool of themselves or leave themselves open for rejection. If you are kind and respectful to people, odds are they will be the same to you. So be yourself - girls appreciate a funny story, an invitation to a group outing, or shared complaining about a teacher. Treat her like a friend and you will be fine.

And be kind to yourself. Don't berate yourself by saying in you mind over and over again "I just can't talk to girls". The next time you hear yourself saying that, you need to stop and say "wait a minute. That is not true. Girls are people and I am good with people. It's easy to talk to girls." Thoughts become things - pick the good ones!

Peace!

Answer 2

Unfortunately, you're not going to go far unless you're confident. Regardless of how many girls Adam Sandler gets in his movies being the cute shy guy, that really doesn't fly in real life.

So how do you become confident you might ask...
#1 It's all mental. Just remember, you're a good guy (hopefully :) ). You're nice, funny and every girl is looking at you when you're walking around. You are a great find and any girl is lucky to even talk to you.
#2They're not as cute as they look. When you talk to them, try to look for flaws. That will boost your own confidence. Yeah, maybe the flaws aren't a big deal, but it'll bring them down a notch. Oh she's a little chubby, I'm in her range. She doesn't dress that well. Down again. Remember, they are more nervous being around you then you are around them.
#3-You can always buy confidence if you got the $$$$$. Get some money and go to a shop like express or buckle and find a hot girl working there and say "make me look GREAT!" Get a variety of outfits that are classy and stylish (think of what it's like when you see the girl that dresses amazing and how irresistable she is...this can be you!). Next, get some nice sunglasses. The ones without rims around the frames like from Fossil are really cool looking. Sunglases show that maybe or maybe you aren't looking at them. Makes you appear more confident. Last, get some good cologne or some Axe. For cologne during the day, buy some Lacoste. For evening, get anything armani exchange. Yes, there is a difference. And do not bathe in it! A squirt on your neck and on one of your wrists and rub them together.

There, now you're no longer shy. So get in there and get'em! Remember, confident, but not too cocky.

Answer 3

Man, you gotta get crazy in this world if you're going to get ahead. I don't mean 'kill' crazy, I mean 'don't care' crazy. You have to quit caring enough to just do whatever your intuition tells you that you need to do. I have the same problems and have to drink beer to do that, and by then I'm too stupidly drunk to make sense. So if you can learn to do it at an early age and not depend on beer (or other drugs) to have fun, be crazy, and talk to people, you will be way ahead of other people, especially me! Just be crazy man!

Answer 4

there is no greater turn off 2 a girl then when she finds out a guy dosn't have confidence

just get yourself together and even if you have to be a bit 2 cocky you gotta try to intimanate girls cause they love a challange. Do that question asking thing like in 40 year old virgin

just don't get 2 cocky k

Answer 5

Practice talking with everyone and you should get over your shyness in no time. Just be yourself!! Have confidence and even when you say something stupid it won't seem so because you say it as if its the smartest thing in the world. That's what politicians do! It seems to work

Answer 6

then don't talk to them just cause you think they're cute, talk to them about school or something they can relate to other than the fact that they're cute. they'll pay more attention. try to make friends and don't worry and don't act like you just want a girlfriend cause that looks desperate. don't worry. talking about other things should help you.

and don't use pickup lines.

Answer 7

I have always had that problem, I'm 42.

I think just go talk to them anyway. We are all foolish. Just be willing to laugh at yourself if others do.

"The women may not find you handsome but at least let em find you handy." Red Green

Answer 8

Observe her, study the way she acts, her weaknesses, her likes and dislikes. When the moment is ready, become the man of her dreams. Don't go crazy, just be cool and yourself. Movies are okay. The yawn and arm-around-shoulder move is a good one.

Answer 9

That happens to me all the time.

Just constantly try to better yourself, so that you'll have more confidence. Women like confident guys.

Answer 10

The day will come when this phase in life will be over----until then---- Turn the TV off except for the news, stop being alone to [play computer games instead>>>>>read books, newspapers, magazines and talk more to adults and participate in class discussions to increase your knowledge of current events along with becoming at ease with others.