2006-10-21 13:48:49 · 22 answers · asked by bandits_my_hereo2004 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Definitely. He has a problem. You should also seek help for him. Drinking goes hand in hand with physical abuse
2006-10-21 13:51:29 · answer #1 · answered by BabyPrincess REAL JAMAICAN QUEEN 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
How old is he? If he is under age then you need to have a serious talk with him. He needs to stop. Either way you need to make sure you take care of you. Dont get in the car with him when he drinks at all. Most definetly you should break up if he becomes abusive. Being drunk is the last thing you should be worried about. The drinking a lot is the issue. He may be an alcoholic or on the fast track to becoming one. He needs help. If he and the relationship is worth it then talk to him - if he is willing to get help - get help. The internet, the yellow pages, your parents, your church. Help is out there. Just look for it.
2006-10-21 20:54:46 · answer #2 · answered by sherrylynn1965 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break up is not the solution. however, people that drink and don't get drunk eventually will get drunk drinking small quantities; that is a health problem.
If you love him help him. Just because he is not getting drunk does not mean he can drink or needs to empty the whole bar!!!!
2006-10-21 20:53:24 · answer #3 · answered by CAndrew 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't have a boyfriend, i have a husband. you should break up with him regardless of whether he drinks a lot or not. he's MY husband! okay....beyond the literality of your question, and in an attempt to answer your question, why would you want to break up with him? if he doesn't get drunk, how does that affect your relationship? maybe you're just not mature enough to realize that there are some of out here who can drink a lot and not get drunk, with harm to no one. hope this helped and good luck to you!
2006-10-21 20:53:14 · answer #4 · answered by vrandolph62 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, i would just say...on the telephone..." you know i've been thinking...and we are going in different directions.." If you have to repeat yourself....he MIGHT BE ON COCAINE...i have heard alot of guys drink and don't get drunk ...and i heard it was the drugs...You do not need this guy really!
2006-10-21 20:51:53 · answer #5 · answered by sweet 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He is getting drunk. He's just figured out how to appear sober - enough. His drinking will just get worse and worse. If you are hoping he's Mr. Right, forget about it. He will leave you lonely and miserable. I know. I had the same problem. It took along time for me to get over it and find the right guy.
-MM
2006-10-21 20:53:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I dont get it. You want to break up with him cause he drinks or you want to break up with him because he doesn't get drunk?
2006-10-21 20:50:27 · answer #7 · answered by jack b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL, i have ALLWAYS hated people drinking so i wouldnt still be with him, but the answer is for you to decide weather you like him drinking or weather you prefer him not too,
2006-10-21 20:54:00 · answer #8 · answered by KATIEKAT 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No but I would talk to him about his drinking and tell him how you feel about his drinkin.My fiance drinks alot to and it pisses me off causse I am so scared something bad is gonna happen to him.Either he will cheat on me,get hurt,or go to jail just something scares me when he does drink
2006-10-21 20:51:40 · answer #9 · answered by Justina F 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes he is a drunk if he doesn't get drunk, kick him to the curb and find a giuy (lots out there) who isn't a drunk..
2006-10-21 21:01:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋