I mean I love him and like I kind of want to but then again I don't!! It's almost like I'm partially confused! Please help me!!!!!!!!
2006-10-21 13:47:10 · 33 answers · asked by innocent little gurl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Young lady, if this boy loved you he wouldn't be pressuring you for sex. Love and sex - two totally different things! Do yourself a favor and dump this guy! You deserve a boy who will love you for who you are, not for what you can do for him!
2006-10-21 13:58:59 · answer #1 · answered by irishman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really do not want to have sex with him and he keeps bugging you then you should break up with him and then report him to the police. It is against the law for any person to pressure another one into what they feel is uncomfortable or unsafe. However this is your decesion not mine! Even if you did report him there's not much the cops can do. Unless of course, he wants you to have sex with him so badly that he is hitting or beating you, then he could end up in jail for a long time because that would be an aggravated assualt case. Also choosing whether to have sexual intercourse or not is strictly one person's one opinion in this case your's not your boyfriend's. That is a wise decesion you are making though because if you guys were to have sex at some point then their is always a good chance of contracting AIDS or another STD. I know a way however to fulfil both your wish of not having sex and your boyfriend's wish of having sex. You may be saying that I am full of crap but I am telling the truth! E-mail me or IM me and I will tell you I would do it right here but some people on these chat boards are so immature that they may react in a stupid way and I might get reported for abuse.
2006-10-21 14:16:57 · answer #2 · answered by leged56 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, the guy doesn't love you. If he loves you he would wait and respect you. Love does not happen in so short a time sweetie. Don't let your feelings for this guy cloud your judgment. Resist his pressure to have sex. It sounds like you're still young, don't rush. Rushing might have you fall flat on ur face. Think of the consequences. He might just leave after you have given up urself to him. How do you think you would deal with the situation? Think hard and stay firm. Take care.
2006-10-21 13:55:14 · answer #3 · answered by Milie88 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be ashamed of yourself.
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20061021184710AAiDn2J&r
You think it is funny and it is a turn on.
How stupid and cruel can women be? Do you know how damaging that can be, it is a long list, but to keep it short he can have infertility problems or lose a testicle(yes not that rare)! It is not just hitting, in that private place and especially done by a woman, men usually feels sexually abused(even if does not show his feelings). It is a sex offense. Not to mention the emotional trauma.
And women claim they are more sensible than men and non violent, yeah right!
That should only be used if someone is trying to rape you or kill you, only emergencies, only extreme cases of self-defense. If you do that in other situations, then you are 10 times worse than the guy you kicked.
If you think is funny to hurt and damage men like that, then you don’t deserve to be loved by any man or to have a family.
And by the way, the question is fake, that girl is always posting that question because she is mean and cruel just like most women.
Want to see the long list of damage, go see my answer, if you care.
2006-10-22 11:39:44 · answer #4 · answered by miniboi6666 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The only guys who pressure girls into having sex is the guy who is not willing to wait around to have it happen naturally. Too often these guys seem to be on a quest to see how many girls they can get and once they get the girl they are ready to move on to the next conquest.
What you need to do is decide what YOU want. If you want him to be your first - enjoy! But know that it might only happen the one time. If you want the first one to be super special, then I would give this guy a miss.
Peace!
2006-10-21 13:52:09 · answer #5 · answered by carole 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok if hes pressuring you then you need to say no if he loved you then hed be willing to wait a while you both have plenty of time before u do that thats wat marriage is for no aint the right time to do that u could get pregnant or worse a disease that could kill you dont mess up your life over something that could have waited ok i know it may sound good at the time but you'll look back on it every day of your life regreting it because you done it, dont let him make u do anything tell him no if he cant accept that or u or respect you enough then he definetaly aint worth yah time. take this advice from someone who knows good luck..
2006-10-21 13:53:57 · answer #6 · answered by Army_Wife2010 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like all he wants is sex. You sound like you are not ready to have sex. It would be a mistake to do go ahead and do it, you will regret it. If he loves you, he will wait til you are ready to be with him. If he keeps pressuring you, I would suggest dumping him because that is all he is with you for. Please don't do anything you might regret. There are a lot of us out there that wish they hadn't that first time.
2006-10-21 13:56:52 · answer #7 · answered by country girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's putting pressure on you the he don't love you. All he really wants is sex and if you're not ready then don't. If you give in and wind up pregnant then what. He'll be gone in a flash.
2006-10-21 13:52:23 · answer #8 · answered by stephenl1950 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
DON't have sex with him. I know how you feel, my ex bf said he loved me too but when he realized I wasn't gonna have sex with him he dumped him. A lot of guys will say they love you but most don't mean it, wait til you get married, cuz if a guy can wait for you that long then you that he REALLY loves you:)
2006-10-21 13:52:01 · answer #9 · answered by sweet kisses 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he really does love you, well... love means respect and trust. Sex isn't something to solidify your relationship with, mutual trust is. If you are uncomfortable about it, he should respect how you feel and not push the issue. Stick to your own feelings and don't worry about him. There's no reason at all to have sex if you aren't comfortable with that. It's your body.
2006-10-21 13:50:38 · answer #10 · answered by Superboyfriend 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋