I'm at a bar/club and I see a lady I'd like to go up and say "Hi" to and introduce myself.
Problem, there are 3 or more other women with her.
Do I:
1: Bag it, this is a Hen House and the only thing I'll get are insults.
2: Keep to my guns, ignore the others no matter what they say and keep talking to get her.
3: Keep to my guns but if insulted by the others say something like, "Well, if you think so", "I'd like to change your mind but I know that'll take time" or another "nice" but vacuous platitude.
4: Keep to my guns and if I'm insulted by the others, say something like, "Would you like to dance, if so, go find the club down the street", or something equally as witty and insulting.
5: Something else (fill this in)
Tanx
2006-10-21 13:46:27 · 9 answers · asked by Geo-Guy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think the "ideal" & "Smartest" way iz to make sure u don't leave a lozer!! Meaning,,, Approach ALL ladiez & make them all feel like ur interested in the whole group in a "friendly" way,,, Ofcourse, Ud be appriaching for a "certain" lady, & doing that, u'll know weither she'z interested in you az well, or not... If another lady from the group likez u instead, that'z still better than nothing!!
TIP: When u approach them, MAKE SURE u give them all EQUAL ATTENTION.. gurlz HATE guyz who just approach one of them & ignore the rest ... If u DO hook up with the one u like when doing this, @ least all the other ladiez would STILL like u , coz they'll feel u were interested in them az well .
Hope I helped!
2006-10-21 13:54:12 · answer #1 · answered by CupCake 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you have so many problems with other women? I've been in a group of women where a guy has approached one many times without being insulted. Maybe you need to treat ALL the women with respect and they will let you talk to the one you want without a problem.
2006-10-21 13:52:27 · answer #2 · answered by Kuji 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pay most attention to the worst looking of the three, but don't flirt. The worst looking girls usually gets jealous because she's ignored. She then ruins it by moving the group away from you.
When the worst looking girl likes you, she'll tell her friends that you're nice. Then it's time to move onto the girl you really like without any of the usual hassle from the most insecure of the three.
Bingo!
2006-10-21 13:54:14 · answer #3 · answered by Cracker 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go with #3
2006-10-21 13:51:01 · answer #4 · answered by Jen B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you shouldn't ignore the other ladies. their approval might help you get with the one you like, as many girls won't go with a guy who their friends hate or who insults their friends. get her friends to like you too, but not too much or they'll ask you to dance with them lol, just make it clear who you're after but be courteous and see if it works.
2006-10-21 13:49:52 · answer #5 · answered by fireflower413 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I don't get why women or men travel in packs like that. It makes approaching them really intimidating.
2006-10-21 13:51:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep to your guns and if they insult you laugh and agree with it.... let them kno you have a funny free side. and dont ignore all of them but one ...... notice all of them and give compliments..
2006-10-21 13:49:12 · answer #7 · answered by summer_girl1404 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go with number 3. but why would they insult you? don't be lecherous, also make sure that she is not taken. ^_^
2006-10-21 13:49:44 · answer #8 · answered by metalchik 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
3. it will amuse the hell out of them, and she might tell her girlfriends to back off
2006-10-21 13:48:33 · answer #9 · answered by High On Life 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋