Ok, so I like this guy that goes 2 my skool so i let one of my friends ask him if he likes me or not but he said he doesn't!!! Could he have been afraid to say yes?
Here's why i thought he liked me:
Sometimes I would catch him looking at me, I would smile and he would relize I had noticed and he would look away.
He chats a lot with me on AIM
And also when we r in class i would be doing something silly and i would catch him staring at me and laughing but then he relized i saw him and he turned red and looked away.
*Yet when one of my friendz asked him he said he wanted to be "just friends"
My question is could he have been sort of afraif to say he liked me to my friend knowing that if he said yes she would tell me???
2006-10-21 13:29:13 · 19 answers · asked by yourbiggestfan:) 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well those are obvious signs. But if he really liked you then he would tell yo wouldnt he?Or why dont u try asking him urself? I say just give it time... And wait and see what happens.
2006-10-21 13:40:04 · answer #1 · answered by Gaby H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"My question is could he have been sort of afraif to say he liked me to my friend knowing that if he said yes she would tell me???"
Um...NO!!!
A guy usually says what he means, unlike a girl that will want a guy to guess what she means, while she give clueless clues. Get over yourself, he doesnt like you like that. He does however think you are funny, since he laughs at things you say...and he might even think you are kind of cute, since he will look at you every now and then...but none of that means that he likes you beyond a friend and thats saying too much even.
And grow up! Stop sending your friends to talk for you...that is so elementary school!!! Hell, you would have been just as well off by writing a note that said "check a box...Yes or No! LOL LOL
2006-10-21 13:38:58 · answer #2 · answered by tpoke24 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He probably only likes you as a friend and he sounds like he's shy,but if i was you i wouldn't ruin the friendship by trying to be grown and moving to fast,you sound like your young and need to focus more on school any-way.You will never find true love until you learn to really love yourself first then you will learn to love others the way they deserve to be loved.A real women don't chase after men your life is worth more than some soap opera fairy tale,and guess what if GOD doesn't send your husband it will never work out so wait and walk with GOD,you don't have to pick a mess GOD will give you what you deserve and that's his best.BE BLESSED.
2006-10-21 14:03:31 · answer #3 · answered by winn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oops, I wandered into the wrong area. I thought you said you had an important question. Seems this same question is asked about a hundred times a day by preteens. Read all the other answers for "advice."
2006-10-21 13:35:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL if you talk to him on AIM you could ask him yourself, just say - why did you tell ??? you didnt like me, & let him answer for his self,
OR just be friends as he told your friend, i dont think you seem old enough to be dating you should concentrate on your studies & your future, wait till your older before bothering with boyfriends, then at least you will know they have a job & have money to go places with you,
2006-10-21 13:41:40 · answer #5 · answered by KATIEKAT 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like he is interested, and I think that if he WAS, he would not tell your friend. So I think you're most likely right about that. His interest in you might have changed, maybe more or maybe less, since your friend asked him that. Does he seem to act or look at you any differently since he was asked? I think that is the question.
2006-10-21 13:38:58 · answer #6 · answered by Superboyfriend 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would be better to not ask in person, but rather on AIM. That way, he wouldn't have to look you in the eyes and tell you face to face. It sounds like he may like your personality and looks but is afraid to admit it.
2006-10-21 13:32:42 · answer #7 · answered by detroitsports_fan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably likes you but if he doesnt have the guts to say that he does, you may not want him to like you. he may be worth the wait but i would wait for him to man up and take an opportunity to talk to you, but i wouldn't stress about it.
2006-10-21 13:33:01 · answer #8 · answered by lankytallgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he probably didnt like the idea of your friend asking him for you, maybe he would like u to ask him instead of your friend.
2006-10-21 13:44:52 · answer #9 · answered by Chiquita dulce 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he knows you like him and it amuses him, and that's why he's always looking at you, but he doesn't want you to think he likes you so he looks away.
of course, he always could like you and only be saying that he doesn't because he knows your friend will tell you and he doesn't want you to know (which is why he always looks away)
50/50
2006-10-21 13:33:11 · answer #10 · answered by fireflower413 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋