And answer honestly.
2006-10-21 13:13:44 · 20 answers · asked by Munchkin 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My experience is that most ladies go for looks... It's a cold, cold world in which we live. I'm not butt ugly, in fact, I'm cute as hell! But because I drive a 90 Acura Integra, and a 88 Ford Ranger 4x4, I'm not good enough for some women. What the biggest shame is... They never take the time to know a person... They assume I'm not good enough. I've learned in my 33 years, that a person who judges a book by the cover will NEVER be happy. Not even with money. Good luck to you all.
2006-10-21 13:18:45 · answer #1 · answered by smartestassofthemall 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most people will say personality because they want others to think they are not shallow. The true answer for how people choose goes more like this:
Immediately dismiss everyone who is ugly and/or fat.
Now since there are sooo many people in the world there are still a ton of people left to find a great personality from.
The problem is this is the group that everyone wants to find someone from. Beware, if you decide to go for personality and not pay attention to looks, you will definitely hear about it from your freinds.
2006-10-21 20:48:46 · answer #2 · answered by Curt C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks. Then a good personality gets a second date.
2006-10-21 20:37:12 · answer #3 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think most women look good so thats not a problem but I have a problem finding someone with the personality i'm looking for so that is more important but looks definitely should be there.
2006-10-21 20:17:31 · answer #4 · answered by detroitsports_fan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both. I can't do without either and that's the honest truth. Great looks are wasted if they come with a poor personality. You do realistically need both as you won't last long on looks alone.
2006-10-21 20:18:00 · answer #5 · answered by The boy from London 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be lying if I just say personality .. the first time we saw this person of course we go for the look and then personality
2006-10-21 20:19:50 · answer #6 · answered by funkysha916 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks are the attractor, personality is the keeper.
I've known very attractive girls that had ugly personalities. They were so prissy and bitchy that they actually got ugly to look at. I cite Hillary Clinton for my example.
I've known unattractive girls that were sweethearts and gems to be with.
2006-10-21 20:16:47 · answer #7 · answered by Eldude 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it would be better to go for personality because he can be the hottes t guiy in the world but he might be the worst person you ever met. now looks do count but get to know their personality first before you say you like them. or there might be times you find a guy ugly but his personality turns you on and then you like him.
2006-10-21 20:20:38 · answer #8 · answered by tina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
me i would say looks is the first thing u see in a person so that's what mostly everyone goes by but if he's/she's ugly and u still get to know him/her then it would be based on thier personality
2006-10-21 20:44:22 · answer #9 · answered by keyonadatgirlfromdabricks 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wel,i try balancing both,the balance can never happen though,some its 40:60 looks:personality..or the opposite.
2006-10-21 20:19:56 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋