I am takening an open art class and theres this guy whos in it but he is abit older then me i like him soo much but somtimes i gett shy around him...we have talked abit and i just got his msn but i dont no how i can gett him too notice me more what am i doing wrong and what can i doo too get more of his attention?....HELP PLZZ
2006-10-21 12:56:36 · 11 answers · asked by natalie d 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just be outgoing and flirt with him.
2006-10-21 12:58:42 · answer #1 · answered by masterurownmind 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is a piece of advice i think most, if not all men will agree with...
Be forward (at least a bit), and ask him on a date. I've seen very few woman that do this, and this one woman i know that does this, has only been turned down once or twice from men (that arn't other wise attached anyway)...
I have a co-worker, that made a similare comment to me once, and she is all for woman's rights, and equality. So I told her to ask him out, and got all pissy with me and said it's the man's job to ask the woman. There went all her feelings of equality.
If you decide to ask this guy out, do it. Be confident, but don't be overly so, you don't want to intimidate him...
Just my thoughts...
On the side note on the co-worker i mentioned befor, any time after that, that i heard her saying anything about equality, i went over to her, and said that she doesn't believe in equality, she believes that woman should get everything and anything they want, but men should have to do everything.
She was pissed at me for a long time, till she finaly saw what I was realy talking about...
2006-10-21 20:03:44 · answer #2 · answered by Junior1544 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to contact him on your Latest version of Yahoo messenger with your Yahoo ID if you have his msn ID just do it! when you IM him first of all introduce yourself as you asked always to others ASL Pl
And enter a nice words which attract him to response your Im ; if you don't find him on line,drop an offline message to him like a love poem or about the romantic movie or picture you have seen in the art gallery.
2006-10-21 20:03:18 · answer #3 · answered by Sunny P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you can always just be straight out and flirt with him, or you can flirt with his friends so he notices you. It really depends on his personality. Be yourself, and don't overdo it. If you're a lil shy, just get to be good friends first. Then eventually you will feel more comfortable. Flirt with his friends, talk to him more, do what you think is right.
I hope this helps! Good luck!
2006-10-21 20:01:47 · answer #4 · answered by *~Harry Potter ADDICT~* 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just make sure he isnt dating another and is staying faithful. other than that, its not what your doing wrong its what your not doing at all. try standing close making eye contact often and be confident in talking to him. if your having trouble being confident just imagine your already dating him that should help. touching him on the arm with your fingertips often also gets his attention. some guys are blind to many hints unless its in our face and even then we may not be certain what we are looking at so be patient and let him know. remember women have many weapons at their disposal when it comes to getting attention you just need to find what they are and your away.
2006-10-21 20:23:41 · answer #5 · answered by evil Hesh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well find out what he likes wear revealing clothieng and see if he notices you like make it obvious your there drop someing infnrt of him and stuff if he donts bite were more regual clothes and get expiremnt do your hair differnt everything
2006-10-21 19:59:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you talk turn on your girly girl,
-dont show that your afraid
-have something to talk about
- put on a cute smile
-and laugh at jokes (no matter how corny it is)
-still be yourself though
-#1 flirt girl FLIRT
2006-10-21 20:11:20 · answer #7 · answered by tina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well your spelling and grammar are terrible so whatever you do don't write anything to him.
2006-10-21 19:58:51 · answer #8 · answered by malisimo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
spelling
2006-10-21 19:58:47 · answer #9 · answered by Grundoon 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
talk dirty to him
2006-10-21 20:00:50 · answer #10 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋