I'm nearing the end and desparation seems like the quickest way out of this mess.
2006-10-21 11:58:35 · 24 answers · asked by Jack Love 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i am 13 and i have had more than three boyfriends...wow!! it must stink being you=(
2006-10-21 12:00:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
NO it isnt weird Depends on what you have been doing with your life for the last 25 yrs If you have been focusing in on getting a good career and making a life for yourself and someone NO IT ISNT WEIRD Some might think so But YOU know the saying now is the older YOU are the Wiser YOU are So go and find a girl (woman) that shares your interest If you are religious go to a religious group and find a nice wonderful lady Or if you are into just any kind of sports look for that kind of group YOU would be surprised what and whom you can find If you have any single clubs in your area check them out also You might be surprised what you will find Good LUCK in your search I know you will have a great life with whom every YOU find
2006-10-21 12:05:18 · answer #2 · answered by chubbycheeks012003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is unusual to be 25 & never had a relationship but I don't think it is wierd. I have had several friends/family members who started dating about 25 and I think it is because it is the age where most people get over their own hang-ups. A lot of people say they never date because nobody likes them, but it is because you don't put yourself out there for whatever reason. I know perfectly loveable people with too low self esteem because they live with their folks, are poor or unemployed, or are overweight. If you look around, there are people "worse off" than you who are in a loving relationship. Whatever your hang-up is, confront it head on and get over it. It isn't the reason you are alone, your attitude about it is the reason. Visualize meeting some girl and falling in love with each other and her helping you overcome your problem (moving out of the folk's house, getting a job or a raise, helping you lose weight, whetever your problem is). Get out there and find your woman!
2006-10-21 12:13:00 · answer #3 · answered by BLANK 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are 25 and have never had a girlfriend, don't worry about whether it is weird or not (it's not weird though). Decide what your priorities are, how you are going to go about achieving them, and do what is important to you. Each individual has their own time table with its own pros and cons, your time table will work itself out. You are the only one living your life, no need to live in constant comparison to other people living their lives.
2006-10-21 12:18:42 · answer #4 · answered by Lyf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be too hard on yourself, there is nothing wrong with being 25 and not having had a realtionship, I was 26 when my first love appeared in my life from nowhere!
Don't forget that you have also not had to deal with the heartbreak that frequently follows being in love.
2006-10-21 12:19:54 · answer #5 · answered by Very happily married. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was the same way. You just have to get out and talk to a lot of women without really worrying about what happens. Eventually you'll learn what reels em in and what drives em off. Be respectful, bold, funny, and unafraid. Don't be afraid to get shut out by every girl--eventually you'll either find a good one or you'll learn what you need to fix about yourself to be what they need.
Weird as it sounds, it just takes practice.
2006-10-21 12:04:49 · answer #6 · answered by wayfaroutthere 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not weird at all.
Don't even think about it. It's all fine. you'll get someone soon. Don't be shy and don't listen to people who say things about not having a girlfriend.
Good luck!
2006-10-21 12:07:42 · answer #7 · answered by hooman m 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, it's not weird, but what to what end are you referring? You cannot give up on finding love. It's out there, you just have to look for it, make yourself available to it, and recognize it when it happens.
2006-10-21 12:03:50 · answer #8 · answered by pupcake 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no buddy, its not wierd, its just not common. you either have too high of expections, or you are way to shy. just go out and meet someone, or if all else fails, go to the bar and drink a little liquid courage. that always works.
2006-10-21 12:00:50 · answer #9 · answered by jackson k 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Its not weird at all. Try looking in some different places.
2006-10-21 12:02:56 · answer #10 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
consider yourself lucky!!! think of all the guys out there who are 25 and are miserable with their girlfriends or wives
2006-10-21 12:02:48 · answer #11 · answered by MissMonk 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋