I love this 1 guy but he is with another girl and it hurts to see him with her i have told him how i felt what do i do now i still love him?
2006-10-21 11:53:33 · 35 answers · asked by xmissxrainxocampo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What did he say when you told him you loved him? His response is very important. Please be careful as it sounds like he picked the other girl. That doesnt mean he doesnt like you but it means that for now he wants to be with this girl. Do not hang around waiting for him as he will see this as pathetic. You want him to see you as single and carefree. He may end up fallin for you when he sees that you dont care. Hell see that as a challenge then to try and get with you.
PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE do not sleep with him when he is with the other girl as hes having his cake and eating it. It just means hes using you for sex, it doesnt mean he loves you and wants to be with you.
2006-10-21 12:19:20 · answer #1 · answered by mersie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should seek counseling and get as far away (emotionally ) from this guy as you can. It is not healthy to love someone when that person is clearly in another relationship. Love yourself more and build up your character and integrity so that you will attract a suitable mate who is also single.
2006-10-21 11:57:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF he is with someone else then that is where he wants to be so you have to move on and find someone for yourself. You have told him how you feel and still nothing has happen. I know it may hurt but for your own good move on.
2006-10-21 11:58:50 · answer #3 · answered by teresa.edmonds@sbcglobal.net 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is obviously happy where he is so its best you leave him alone for a while if he loves you and you are meant to be then one day you will be together. Im sorry if this doesnt help but its the best advice I can give
2006-10-21 11:56:54 · answer #4 · answered by zzr250man 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it go you don't want someone who is in love with someone else it will never work,be happy for him at least you'll have a friend.IF GOD doesn't give him to you it won't last anyway.Sorry but that's the truth,GOD will give you what you deserve, HIS BEST.
2006-10-21 12:03:31 · answer #5 · answered by winn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love has to be a two-way street. Since he has ignored you, means he has no interest. He's just not that into you. Get on with your life and find somebody else.
2006-10-21 11:57:36 · answer #6 · answered by sophieb 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Focus on other things. If they seperate he knows how you feel and if he likes you he will come looking but don't rock the boat while he is with someone else, he wont thank you for it.
2006-10-21 11:57:58 · answer #7 · answered by mistickle17 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him go. If you really love him you will respect his choice of who he wants to be with. Dont ruin their relationship because if you do get him you would always fear that he would fall for someone else.
2006-10-21 11:57:56 · answer #8 · answered by simplyjaxxs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, this is why they call dating a "game". Because sometimes you win, and sometimes you lose.
It's not that there is anything wrong you, oh hells no, its just that he feels you are not right for him.... you'll find someone for you, trust me on that. Just take your time. And in the meantime, enjoy the "freedom" of being single.
2006-10-21 12:04:33 · answer #9 · answered by toko 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have told him how you feel and he is still with the other girl then i think he has made his decision. You can't chase him if he's not showing any signs of interest.
2006-10-21 11:59:05 · answer #10 · answered by Lee B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋