Sometimes when I am telling a story or a joke my boyfriend tells me to wrap it up or asks me when I am going to be done in a way that really hurts my feelings. I've told him that some of his stories bore me but I bear through them out of respect for him and that I'd wish that he would do the same for me. He continues to hurt my feelings with his responses (which are not rude, just not thoughtful)
and it wears on my self esteem sometimes. I would appreciate advice on how to deal with this.
2006-10-21 11:42:30 · 8 answers · asked by BLANK 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well u kno i feel u can't change a person but i feel there mite be some topics which just don't interest him i guess and i understand how u feel so before telling him something ask him if he would be really interested in listening or not this way u kno he'll understand u better and realize that u actually need his respect.
2006-10-21 11:47:43 · answer #1 · answered by sum1 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't bother to tell him any jokes or stories and look around for a new guy while you are at it.
This guy sounds like a real jerk!
2006-10-21 18:46:42 · answer #2 · answered by Angela 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he can't even respect your feelings now, then that's just the tip of the iceberg.
Drop his azz now before you get in any deeper.
2006-10-21 18:45:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a new boyfriend that shows you respect - this one sounds like a jerk.
2006-10-21 18:45:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drop him and find someone who respects you
2006-10-21 18:44:21 · answer #5 · answered by JennyAnn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
***** slap him and tell him to sit there and listen
2006-10-21 18:46:21 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why not just wrap it up....some women just talk toooooo much
2006-10-21 18:47:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Don't talk so much.
2006-10-21 18:45:40 · answer #8 · answered by S h ä r k G û m b ò 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋