there are two guys i'm not sure which one to go for they both love me
but i'm so confused i need some help
Guy 1: very sensitive ,sweet , would do anything for me, loves me more then i think anyone has but he has no drive he's always suficing his vices and dosent know how to let some of them go, he also makes me laugh, also i dont think he could protect me
Guy 2: makes me histaricaly laugh, loves me just as much, would do anything for me, little cuter than guy 1, not as good in bed as guy 1, has drive in his life, i went out with him before and never realy gave him a chance, he made his life better so i would want to be with him and he mentioned marrage. but i'm not ready for that yet. and not as much of a weiner as guy 1, could protect me, makes me feel safe.
on the last note i do not want to hurt guy one in any way and i'm kinda seeing him right now
what should i do?which one should i stay with?
2006-10-21 11:22:26 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i love guy 1 more than i have ever loved anyone but i cant be with someone i have to push to his full potential his whole life
2006-10-21 11:40:55 · update #1
Hmmmmmmm
I, personally, would stay with the chap you are with. Why leave someone that is perfectly decent, for someone you don't know it would work with?
Plus, guy 1 is better in better - it is hard to make a realtionship work if the sex isn't good.
2006-10-21 11:24:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Listen girl u have to sit by yourself at really think about that very good. First u have to choose which guy u like the most and not only how good are they in bed, of course sex is very important. But u have to like something else about them to. Like u sad that they make u laugh it's very important it's always good if your guy and u have a good time. Plus u guys have to trust each other and if u want to know if the guy is real u should spent some time together and u see if he is in 2 u same as u. Just go with how u feel and who u like more it has to be one of them that u like more then the other. And try not to break anybodies heart. Think about it really good, don't jump at anybody.
2006-10-21 11:57:37 · answer #2 · answered by Martini5 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you already know which one, there was only one negative comment about guy 2 and thats the bedroom part but that can be sorted with time and teaching...............
The other guy will be hurt but its better to cruel to be kind it will give him the chance to move on...............
I could not see someone with no drive it would wind me up, and you sound like you are a driven person so you can work hard together with number two ...................
2006-10-21 11:29:28 · answer #3 · answered by xXx Orange Breezer xXx 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guy 2 is the one you should go for. Teach him some 5ex skills, tell him what you like etc.
Guy 1 sounds like someone who may not be able to generate income to raise a family to me as he has no drive.
2006-10-21 17:50:24 · answer #4 · answered by Tatiana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You already hurt guy 1 by considering him a wiener so why don't you just drop down on your knees and do what you do best with guy 2.
2006-10-21 11:28:09 · answer #5 · answered by 1/6,833,020,409 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quite frankly you deserve that both guys find out about each other and dump you. They do not deserve to be treated the way you have treated them. There are plenty of girls out there that would be happy with just one fella. Never heard of MONOGAMY?
2006-10-21 11:30:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
become poly, that is ahve more than one bf.. it might throw them for a bit but why not... I have been there and it was good, just took a bit of getting use to but the girl I was seeing got a lot of attention and she deserved it.
2006-10-21 11:40:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Neither, you talk about them loving you but you don't say you love them, your just enjoying the attention you get from them , you will end up hurting both of them.
2006-10-21 11:30:35 · answer #8 · answered by Dolly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say go with your heart but where's that at.hard choice but you should not of got your self in to this situation.
which ever one you pick the other is going to get hurt.
2006-10-21 11:34:30 · answer #9 · answered by keith0866 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump them both, if one doesn't stand out, the it is clear that nether is Mr. Right.
2006-10-21 11:28:10 · answer #10 · answered by Jack S. Buy more ammo! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋