i talk to this guy on msn but i have never actually met him in person
he says he really wants to date me but i dont wanna date him cuz the pics i saw of him were not that great( like hes not what i would pick) but his personality rocks i love it
and he live in a diff city ( 15 min away ) but he doesnt ahve his license or a job and is alomost 18
im 15 i dont have my license or a job either
so idk what to do anymore cuz he is really nice to me over the internet but ive never met him so.,,,,,,,,? What is your input people
2006-10-21 11:21:49 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
your 15 he's 18... stay the hell away from him.. your ages aren't compatible yet... he prolly doesn't wanna go to jail.
That being said let me let you in on some of this "internet love" stuff. First of all, people can be 100% different on the internet than they are in real life. Saying somthing over the computer is super easy because there are rarely consequences, and he doesn't have to look you in the face. You said yourself that his picture isn't all that great, and i'd say 90% of the time their real life version is worse than their picture. Remember people put their best pictures up their hoping to attract someone. I can't tell you how many times i've met women who were 70 lbs over what their pic looked like and it just isn't good. If you want to meet someone over then internet that is fine, but i'd start it off by like going to the mall shopping or somthing first.. chances are in 20 minutes you will notice some big differences in their looks and how they act.
2006-10-21 11:28:48 · answer #1 · answered by travis R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never - ever meet someone you met on the internet at your age. People lie and send pictures of others and trick you and it is just dangerous. Please Don't do it. After you are 18 and if you want to meet someone, do it in a very public place and have a friend with you. This is dangerous.
2006-10-21 18:27:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say no just because it's never a good idea to meet people you've only talked to on the internet.
2006-10-21 18:24:32 · answer #3 · answered by Rachel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At your age, and considering the way you "write" you should be less worried about meeting guys online, and more concerned with brushing-up on your English, grammar, and writing skills.
2006-10-21 18:28:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my advise for u is to use ur mind instead of useing ur heart
u cant not have life with someone dont work and dont have his own life
he may be nice but can not take care of u
2006-10-21 18:30:05 · answer #5 · answered by micho 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first meet the guy in person maybe hes just not photogenic but if you really like his personality then his looks shouldn't matter
2006-10-21 18:27:07 · answer #6 · answered by Cheer4Life 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're 15 and he's 18? It may only be 3 years but just don't go there, even if it is only for his sake. Go for someone your own age, please.
2006-10-21 18:25:54 · answer #7 · answered by SEB C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
meet him u have nothing to loose is a good guy u can change him but if he is nothing just leave him
try all u have to do is to try :) and i hope to find what r u looking for
2006-10-21 18:25:25 · answer #8 · answered by Dr.Tee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't date someone you don't know...people are never who they say they are
Not to mention, it might be a little awkward when people ask, "So, how did you two meet?"
Good luck, anyway! ^_^
Do whatever floats your boat, I'm just throwing in my own suggestion! :-)
2006-10-21 18:24:10 · answer #9 · answered by lildevilgurl152004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
l think your jail bait,for anyone 18 or over
2006-10-21 18:26:09 · answer #10 · answered by Cobra 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋