how can we get along?

Question

my mom and i fight almost all the time. i hate that. i dont know how to make our relationship better.

Answer 1

Pull away from your mom for a while. Write your feelings down and share with her your thoughts. If you can't talk without fighting let her read your thoughts.

Answer 2

Love begets love, hate begets hate. it would be kind of you to set aside yourself for a while and let your mom do the talking and you do the listening, and maybe that will change everything. Usually, people argue because of disagreements. If you have something to say which is totallly different from your mother's point of view, you can do it but in a tactful way,
Never ever forget the real of meaning of "respect".
Children, obey your parents in the Lord for this is right. Honor your father and mother which is the first commandment with promise. That it may be well with you and you may live long on the earth.

Answer 3

The fact that you communicate is the foundation upon which a better relationship can be built.

Once the communication stops, you then will go separate ways.

People who tend to argue a lot also seem to have a relationship which could be underneath very loving.

It would be a good idea to find other outlets upon which to vent your hostilities (and there are many things that are in need of addressing that irritate us).

Once you can find common ground upon which you agree, you can rebuild your relationship to what is should be.

Answer 4

Express youself, as always, but let her win, once and awhile. Buy her some flowers, too, especiallyl for Mother's Day.

Answer 5

withdraw from the fighting. it takes two.

come back to try to talk when things have cooled down.

but it all depends on what you are fighting about too. guess we need more info.

Answer 6

Take time to do something that you both enjoy together.

Answer 7

then don't fight anymore

Answer 8

when you find the answer let me know