Ok so I was on the coutch lastnight with my girlfriend and we were sitting there watching a movie, in the dark, with some friends of ours.....we werent cuddling or anything but we were sitting an entire foot away from eachother just watching this movie...My girlfriend grabs my phone and starts to text another guy....
...Regardless of what she texted, what guy it was, or what the intentions of it were...she was still texting another guys with me right there...
...I was mad and we got into a long 3hr fight over it...
Would that tick you off too? Or was I being to much of an A*S
2006-10-21 11:12:58 · 19 answers · asked by Bar19one 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ABSOFREAKNLUTELY NOT! that is just plain disrespectful. I couldn't image having the balls to "text" even a girl that was a friend while i was out on a date. I swear, their should be a mandatory class about dating etiquettes in school. I mean I learned this from my parents at a young age...
2006-10-21 11:31:23 · answer #1 · answered by sunray73 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you are right for being mad. It seems to me that she has no consideration for you. Or either she was trying to make you mad. But still she was in the wrong. If I were you, I would sit her down and talk to her and just tell her in a really sincere way that you were upset because she was texting other guys. When you are committed to someone you don't do stuff like that. Tell her that it really hurt you and that you don't want her to do that. If she gets angry with you then I would just let her go. That would be for the best because no one likes to get hurt.
2006-10-21 18:17:31 · answer #2 · answered by made_in_heaven06 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya that would probably get me a bit angry... First of all, texting another guy definatly makes you look like an idiot in front of the other people in the room. She wasn't cuddling with you and i'm sure everyone else in the room noticed that. My guess is she's doing this to give you some hints that it is going to be over between you soon.. THat or she is just one of those crazy chicks that likes to make their men jealous (if she is that type get rid of her asap because it does nothing but cause drama).
2006-10-21 18:18:12 · answer #3 · answered by travis R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Totally depends on the circumstances. The only way it would be "okay" is if she was texting a male coworker about a urgent work issue like switching hours, or some other very valid reason. etc. THAT IS IT. Anything else is totally rude & insensitive on her part. What you should do next time is text other girls in front of HER & see how she likes it.
2006-10-21 18:21:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Loosen up, you shouldn't get upset unless you knew all the facts! Either
1.she trust that you wouldn't get upset that she is texting a friend since you have such a "solid" realtionship
2. She doesn't like you and could care less
I'm opting for #1 since there was a long argument over it
2006-10-21 18:16:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What was the big deal? Unless she was flirting with him so saying inappropriate things, I don't see the problem. Do you want her to pay you the like 5 or 10 cents back?
2006-10-21 18:15:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if i was in that position then i would be ticked off too. But also i would try and figure things out.
2006-10-21 18:21:25 · answer #7 · answered by monkeykiwi_me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends on who the guy was. If it was your phone, he was probably your friend. Why don't the three of you sit down together?
2006-10-21 18:16:17 · answer #8 · answered by Recovering Blonde 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Over protective. Seems to me like you may have some deep rooted self-esteem issues.
2006-10-21 18:15:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you have every right to me mad, but some girls may not know that ticks people off, tell her that it hurt your feelings, are u sure she is not just trying to make you Jeleous?....just talk to her about it and let her no how it made you feel...good luck
2006-10-21 18:15:47 · answer #10 · answered by lovin' you 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋