i met this guy he just turned 26 and i just turned 18 i'm in the air force and he's in medical school right now were just friends but i know its going to go futhur as in relationship wise but do you think it's wise since i'll be gone for awhile???i've told him i don't know and we should be friends and he understands that but he's still really interested in being with me like i am with him but i don't want to build up a relationship when i'm leaving soon but i'm coming back but i dont know any advice from women please?guys you don't need to answer
2006-10-21 10:50:27 · 4 answers · asked by flyinghigh006 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Not that young people do not know about or can truly be in live but it is a period in their life when they are flighty. They one one thing this minute then something better (or so they think) the next. You are going to the Air Force and will be surround by many men vying for you attention and he will be in college getting the same attention from women (who are in the same place as he is as far as maturity, and mentality). My advice is to just be careful, take it slow, and wait it out. If it was meant to be, you guys will find each other when both of you are in a more settled state of mind and life.
2006-10-21 11:05:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you know the guy you are currently dating is trying to turn thing into a relationship then you need to talk to him before this happens.let him know the reason you are having doubts. I am sure you both will have busy schedules you being in the Air Force and him being in medical school. He has his studies to keep him busy while you are away. You did say that you were coming back right? Any relationship take trust so until he shows you he cant be trusted see if things can work. You can always contact him via email, text or a phone call.
2006-10-21 18:03:49 · answer #2 · answered by justturning40 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should build a strong friendship. Try to remain freinds to avoid jelousy because you are apart so much. Hang out together when your in town, but don't get too close----emotionally. If he is right for you, time can only build your friend ship closer. Don't blow it trying to make a long distance relationship work, especially when both of you have a demanding priority like medical school and the airforce. God bless.
2006-10-21 17:54:21 · answer #3 · answered by AUDREY H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him an incentive to finish his studies first and then be in a relationship with you. It'll work if you both commit to each other.
2006-10-21 17:53:24 · answer #4 · answered by endagrogan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋