I am a 40 year old woman, I find myself attracted to a 24 year old man in my evening class. We have partnered up once before in class and really clicked, talked like old friends and asked questions back and forth. After that, I tried to look and smile at him after asking a brief question in class. But, then the next time in class, I tried to talk with him and he just answered the question and went back into class. So, I don't know if he it was a bay day for him or just not interested or what? So, maybe he was just shy? I know everything in life will work out just find and the way it's meant to but, I am curious about this. Because I find the guy to be extremely sexy and even with age gap hoping for a boyfriend. We really clicked that day or maybe I just got a little too happy. Maybe to him it was no big deal, just another conversation.
2006-10-21 10:41:20 · 9 answers · asked by YM 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hmmmm.. that is a hard one... but, I would just come right out and ask him if he would like to go on a date? The worse thing that could happen is he will say no. If you feel a click then if it was on the other foot he'd ask you...so what is the difference. A lot of younger guys are attracted to older women. LL.
2006-10-21 10:46:24 · answer #1 · answered by italliansweety67 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you shouldn't ask him out. If a guy is interested in you he'll ask you out.
You are reading way too much into this situation. He doesn't sound interested in you. Stop trying to talk to him every time you see him. Create some mystery about yourself. Wear clothes that are flattering to your figure. No not reveal too much. Start talking to other people in your class. Pull the attention away from him. Men also want what they think they can't have. Once you do this he'll come around. If not he's not interested in you and you'll have to move on.
Please don't ask this man out. You'll come across as pushy and needy. Besides if he says no the only person that will get hurt is you. Why do that to your self-esteem?
2006-10-21 10:50:44 · answer #2 · answered by Inez 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think most guys are scared and unsure about women at the best of times no matter what the age unless a guy is a player. if he has not had any previous experience with an older women he could be thinking about what to do...should he approach you...is he prepared to pursue and do whatever that goes along with that. I think most guys like to look and admire women but if they choose to become involved that means work for them whether it is a one night thing or something more. based on my experiene with younger men if they are interested they go for the gusto right then and there (hoping you won't change your mind) bottom line is i just think you scare the crap out of him..lol
2006-10-21 10:56:46 · answer #3 · answered by Single Gal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im 21 and if a woman was 40 and didnt look anything near demi moore.....no way in hell.
Hes honestly proabably being nice because hes feel bad for you being 40 and still in class.
check out eharmony.com or lovebehindbars.com
2006-10-21 10:46:36 · answer #4 · answered by TyWebb 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'd do it with him. all guys want to say that they've had sex with an older woman. he probably won't date you cuz it would be too weird. i'm 24 and wouldn't date anyone who could drive when i was born. just the way it is
2006-10-21 11:04:55 · answer #5 · answered by stan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Show him some cleavage and wear a short skirt !!
2006-10-21 10:47:07 · answer #6 · answered by Owie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say to email me, but I don't think you want to. Anyways if you do, my email is the same as this on yahoo.
2006-10-21 10:49:09 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you realx and stop trying that is when good things happen. If it was meant to be stop trying so hard
2006-10-21 10:46:21 · answer #8 · answered by melthule 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I envy this man!!
2006-10-21 10:43:56 · answer #9 · answered by paul s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋