this guy at my old job was after me for well over a year. even after i found a new job, he found my number and was this after me. i told him i really didn't like him like that but we where friends. finally we went out a few time and i slept with him on the 3th date. now i almost never hear from him. i'm just confused at where we stand. he broke his cell phone (before all this) so i can't really call him to talk. what do you think? i don't want to go to his job just to talk to him.
2006-10-21 10:28:42 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It was a pursue and conquest... He succeeded.....he moved on , and you should too.
If you don't like a guy, don't go out with him and God forbid don't sleep with him....
2006-10-21 10:31:51 · answer #1 · answered by doclakewrite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe ya gave it up just a little too soon.. the challenge is gone now.. try showin up somewhere he may be on accident ( grocery store, local sports bar,) on the same highway.. pass him by , tune him out ... if he see's you and wants you to notice him ... he will do something to get your attention. If he ignores you then move on, but only with a smile on your face... by the way I hope you made him use a condom.
2006-10-21 17:35:28 · answer #2 · answered by jessica jones 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DON'T CALL HIM!! Turn this table around girl. Act like you don't want to even speak to him again and that whatever you said the night ya'll slept together you said out of pity because he was so pathetic in bed!
2006-10-21 17:42:38 · answer #3 · answered by Corona 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you didn't like him before you sleep together. What makes you think you like him now? He sounds like he was just after a piece of ---, and once he got it he moved on. If he really wanted more with you. He would be contacting you just as much as he did before. Sorry girl. But move on.
2006-10-21 17:33:17 · answer #4 · answered by itistigger70 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did you put out on the third date? He might of lost all interest in you because the chase is over.
He could be really busy though. Stop by his work, just once. If he's acting standoffish, drop it there.
2006-10-21 17:32:41 · answer #5 · answered by firecracker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like a stalker. Hire a hitman. ALSO check ur bushes near house.
2006-10-21 17:35:12 · answer #6 · answered by Jacob 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh man i wouldve waited gurl....but if you say that this guy was like practically stocking you more than ever than im pretty sure that he wasnt all that interested just to do it wit you.....just give some time and he'll give you a call out of nowhere!
2006-10-21 17:33:00 · answer #7 · answered by Lizzie101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you feel you messed up? He got what he wanted and chalk it up at that. Trust me if he wanted to be bothered, he knows how to contact you - he did in the past. Life goes on.
2006-10-21 17:36:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why not it shows him you care try to surprise him with something in a good way
2006-10-21 17:32:10 · answer #9 · answered by Cheer4Life 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he probably was after something and he got it so i guess he had to go.
2006-10-21 17:32:58 · answer #10 · answered by lila 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋