i have a guy that he tells me that he loves me and that he wonts to be with me but the thing is that when ever we are toghter he is always looking at other girls i know im a thick girl but still i need my love and when he tells me he loves it just makes me wont to cry because i've never had a guy tell me that but then he tells me that and i wont to break down in tears because i fell loved.but hes always checking out othert girls *** and **** and it piss me off. but when i tell him i love him its like a moment ment to be
2006-10-21 10:22:56 · 21 answers · asked by silvertonflames 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You're just being insecure. Guys always look at other girls. It's built into us.
2006-10-21 10:25:06 · answer #1 · answered by MisterO 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how old you are and if your guy is really truly interested in a dedicated relationship. Even thick girls can find plenty of other options . . .
It's not unusual for a guy, even one who is really into having a dedicated relationship, to look at other women, just as I'm sure you find other men attractive. He's just less subtle about it. Maybe you need to be with a guy who's more discrete about his wandering eyes? Anyway, don't let another person's behavior govern how you feel about yourself - that's a good way to get into a relationship where you're on the short end of the stick
2006-10-21 10:27:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
first off what are you talking about hes sexy and really hot, this and that is that all you see in him not all the sex and looks in the world is anything to get hurt over. And then you say u want to have sex with another with him or some other guy sounds like you need to take a look at your self too. but own to the to the question u want a answer 2 sit down and talk to him and see what is really going on and talk to your friends 2 if u feel that some thing is going on then end the relationship dont stay for the sex and his looks and even if u did brake up with him i feel that u still will have him around for some thing anywho good luck
2016-05-22 08:18:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All women want the same thing, a strong man who loves them. Strong means that he is a high quality man without phobias or bad habits and doesn't allow bad behaviors in his life either from himself or others. You can't push his buttons and he is calm, cool and collected, especially when things go wrong. Love means that he genuinely cares about you and is in it for the duration and won't leave you ESPECIALLY after you have children with him.
This is what all women want and need in a man and they are miserable if they don't get it and make their partner miserable as well. Does this sound like your man? If not, you have two options. You can either explain to him what the deal is and what you demand of him. You tell him in no uncertain terms that he better get with the program and BE A MAN. And love you. Or you get rid of him and find someone who will.
Understand this. You think that you might not be able to get this because of your weight. And I will tell you two things. The first is that men do not care about that. What men care about is if you are a good woman or not. Men will screw women who look a certain way. But we will only LOVE a woman who is worthy of it. And being worthy of it has nothing whatsoever to do with the way you look. Most women feel exactly the same way that you do but have a different excuse for it. Pamela Anderson Lee and Jessica Simpson are just as anxious and unsure as you are and think that they might never get what they want, exactly as much as you do.
So don't settle for bad behavior and bullshit. Getting a man is as simple as being warm and friendly toward men you are attracted to. Getting what you want takes you being focussed on these two qualities and either finding a man who gets it or taking some clueless guy and being assertive with him as to what it's all about.
2006-10-21 10:39:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hhahahahahahaahha omg! it means he is a guy. I mean im pretty sure there is sum guy u find hot. He is human, and humans have eyes. Especially men. Dont want ur man to look? Get a blind dude.
2006-10-21 10:25:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anayden 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It means he's human..Guys and girls both do it,and just because you're in a relationship.. it doesnt mean you're dead..
Though i will say it sounds like he needs to make it a little less obvious.
2006-10-21 10:26:22 · answer #6 · answered by . 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sweetheart, try this... stop callin him... if he keeps calling you , tell him you are busy but will call him as soon as you can. but dont. when he calls you...... be short and say you have to go.. .. he will soon realize he is not the only fish in the sea, and maybe he will stop taking you for granted.....ALL WOMEN NEED 3 THINGS FROM A MAN 1. GOOD CONVERSATION 2. GOOD SEX 3. AND MONEY
2006-10-21 10:29:52 · answer #7 · answered by jessica jones 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's prolly just in the relationship for a piece of ***.
2006-10-21 10:29:38 · answer #8 · answered by Charles 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's just being a guy...you've never glanced at a cute guy on the beach or anything?
2006-10-21 10:26:20 · answer #9 · answered by tuesday 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's a normal guy. All guys check out other girls!
2006-10-21 10:25:35 · answer #10 · answered by Joe Prosnick 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋