2006-10-21 10:16:53 · 22 answers · asked by gidget 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
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2006-10-21 10:30:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would of changed everything. I thought i was the only 19 year old virgin in the world! All the other girls around me would all talk about sex non-stop and I really felt like i was missing out and was weird. I thought that everyone was having sex but me. So in the spur of a moment I trusted that special gift to a male friend who seemed perfect (he was involved in church and volunteered all the time). Well after it happened (he wasn't gentle or romantic....me crying the whole time) he told everyone and I was mortified and everyone was talking about it. One of my male friends confronted me about it and He was joking around about it. I told him I lost my virginity and that it wasn't funny and he froze and apologized. It was at that moment I realized what I did. I realized I was a conquest and nothing more. I felt like such a whore. I didn't even love him, and that was sad. I had waited 19 years and I didn't know I would meet my husband a year later. Why am I spilling the beans? So that you don't go through the regret and pain and humiliation I did. I wish I would of waited for my husband who is my first love and I wish he could of been my first sexual experience. Because he would of made it special and it would of meant something to the both of us. Once it's gone it's gone.
2006-10-22 12:49:38 · answer #2 · answered by mrs.degoey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly I would have waited longer.I was only 16.I thought I was in LOVE.Well the truth is what I thought and what was real are 2 different story's.I am now happily married and know the difference.I wish I had waited until I was old enough to know the difference between real love and teenage hormones.I wasted one of my most special gifts on a horny teenager who said all the rite things to make me feel special only to break my heart not long after.
2006-10-21 18:20:27 · answer #3 · answered by blue_eyed_brat78 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's easy - my partner. When you are young, you think you know what you are doing and you think you can make good decisions. As you get older you realise how wrong you were. I thought he was the one I wanted to be with for the rest of my life. Thank goodness that didnt turn out to be true, he's a creep! Sex is not all about glamour or whatever you might think it is from watching movies, your older friends, whatever... it's great when you are in a loving relationship with someone you can trust so dont get me wrong, but it's also scary. There are diseases to worry about, getting pregnant before you are ready, getting caught by people, the list goes on.
2006-10-21 19:04:02 · answer #4 · answered by MaPetiteHippopotame 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We were in a rush cause we were expecting people over. We panicked cause it was the last day of the school holidays and we had planned that we would "do It" before we went back to school. Sounds so lame now. I guess what I am saying is make sure you have all day and all night with no interruptions. Make a nice atmosphere too, you want to be able to look back and say it was special.
2006-10-22 06:30:30 · answer #5 · answered by mountain girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't change a thing.
I lost my virginity to the man I'm now engaged to. We were both virgins at the time and even though it was really quite fumbled we loved each other and so it was perfect
2006-10-21 17:22:54 · answer #6 · answered by Hannah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I lost it quite young, at 13. Apart from wishing my reflexes had not been so, well, "quick" I would have liked us to remain friends longer. Somehow through the rumor grapevine her father found out about our little secret and I was banned from seeing her again.
The first time is way overrated in my opinion.Mind you I had a lot of my friends asking me questions about what it was like......
2006-10-21 18:23:21 · answer #7 · answered by LanceMiller77 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait till your married. Although i am saying this, i am not virgin. My first time was with my lovely female friend that played into it. I was very young (don't ask) but it felt awsome. but the best thing is to stay a vrigin till you are married. wish i would have known that.
2006-10-21 17:37:34 · answer #8 · answered by karpflover 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would have waited a lot longer, and would definitely not have lost it to the person that I lost it to.My advice to you: WAIT AS LONG AS U CAN!!!!!! That is something that is very special and you dont want to regret it later. You dont get a second chance to lose your virginity. Make it special!!
2006-10-21 17:33:34 · answer #9 · answered by Amber D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have used birth control, and taken my parents advice not to marry the guy, because they were right about him. The marriage broke up after 2 years and I became a single mom.
2006-10-21 17:34:04 · answer #10 · answered by jen 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have done it earlier to get it over with. However, I say that now, but at the time it was a good decision to wait and do it when I was ready, with a guy I was very comfortable with and trusted.
2006-10-21 17:26:10 · answer #11 · answered by cpinatsi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋