i like this guy but he doesn't like me because of my body and the way I act but, should i do that for him or what. I just dont know if he really likes or if he wonts to get in my pants or what so what should i do i need help because hes already tried to finger me?
2006-10-21 10:06:46 · 13 answers · asked by silvertonflames 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Skin & Body ➔ Other - Skin & Body
never change who you are unless YOU want to personally. not for someone else. if they dont like you for you then you shouldnt be with them.
2006-10-21 10:08:17 · answer #1 · answered by manda.dances 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You make yourself sound hard-up. Why change at all for anyone, and not for yourself. Remember he is the fool who is missing out. Learn to love yourself and if you want to improve, or make a change do it only for your own self improvement or self immage, I am blowed if I will change just for a man. There are plenty of others who like and accept you for who you are. Remember you are very well liked by 33% of the folks you know, another 33% accepts you and don't 'care' the last 33% don't like you at all. This applies to all and sundry, Enjoy the You Who You are
2006-10-21 17:12:47 · answer #2 · answered by tracey s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, stay the way you are. If you want to lose weight or whatever do it for yourself and not for someone else. This guy sounds like an idiot. Next time he tries to finger you, finger him back.... that is stick your finger in his eye ;)
2006-10-21 17:18:14 · answer #3 · answered by . 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should do any changing for you and you alone. If you get him to like you and he turns out to be a jerk, then what?
Most change has to start inside, anyway. Learn to accept and care for yourself, and realize that you can strive to be a good person.
One other thought- try to be with guys that build you up, not tear you down.
2006-10-21 17:10:31 · answer #4 · answered by Twin momma as of 11/11 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you should only go for people who like you the way you are. No one is worth changing for at this stage of a relationship.
2006-10-21 17:14:28 · answer #5 · answered by ddnguyen9 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO, don't change your body just because a guy doesn't like it.
2006-10-21 17:10:29 · answer #6 · answered by kim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has already indicated what he wants from you! So, wake up, open your eyes and tell him to go fishing in a different lake or see.
2006-10-21 17:11:01 · answer #7 · answered by Nikolas S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK HELL NOOOOOO
be yourself and if anyone tells you other whys the are messed up
2006-10-21 17:08:47 · answer #8 · answered by kowgirl055 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DONT, who says you'll marry him. this might even cause you to look desparate
2006-10-21 17:10:21 · answer #9 · answered by makemesomefuncookies 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, never.
2006-10-21 18:41:00 · answer #10 · answered by minus 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋