y is it that wen we r mad or angry at sum1 is say the most hurtful and mean things just to regret it later on...i really hurt my older adopted sister by telling her that my brother was my brother not hers...but i was so mad da she couldnt understand that i didnt want him to ever get drunk again i mean she was acting like if it was no biggy n he wasnt goin to do it again how would she kno that hes only 15 but mayb i should off just chilled out...im suppose to b there for him not to b bitc*** like mom... n i totally didnt mean it cuz i love her more than anything... i feel so bad..can any1 tell me what have they said wen they were mad at sum1 da totally hurt them so i can feel a lil better even tho i shouldnt!!
2006-10-21 09:39:22 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
if we are hurting , we want to lash out and hurt others, A good sign of maturity is out ability to look at something and sort it out in out mind and then deal with it, new motto :think first, then act, not react"
2006-10-21 09:54:34 · answer #1 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The reason we say mean things and hurtful things when we're mad is because its whats on the inside of you. The bible says that whats in you will come out of you. So in order for you to have said what you said, you were thinking it. When a person say something its because it was really really in their heart all along it just never came out until that individual was angry. When you're angry you could care less about what you say. Thats why it it better to choose your words very carefully because you may say something you will regret later. Not only is the person you said it to is hurt but you are also hurt in the process. Once words are sent out of the mouth, you can't take them back.
2006-10-21 10:57:21 · answer #2 · answered by Wendy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl the answer to that question is pretty easy: get a real friend and forget about her. No real friend would say something like that and having that kind of person in ur life will only bring negative energy to you, something u don't need.
2016-05-22 08:14:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you want everyone around you to feel as bad as you do. This is the most selfish thing any one of us can do. You need to calm yourself down, and think about what you're going to say before saying it... good luck
2006-10-21 09:43:39 · answer #4 · answered by blueeyeskenai 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because to degrade someone, and make them seems very LOW, gives you a fake feeling of authority, and makes you feel like you accomplished something. makes you feel like you are better than them. till you sit back and listen to your heart, and realize you might've caused someone who respected you so much, to lose some of that respect for you.
2006-10-21 09:55:15 · answer #5 · answered by jboi2k06 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋