ok i just found out that my fiancee is talking in very romantic ways to his ex. when I told him that it bugged me that they were still that close a week ago he said that he would stop doing that. But when i checked his email like he asked me to do I found this email from her about how much fun she had last night after I was dropped off due to my sprained ankle. He promised me that he would never cheat on me but I don't know what to do at all. I love him with all my heart and losing him will break my heart. can anyone help me with this.
2006-10-21 09:20:58 · 12 answers · asked by rhianon_elizabeth 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
I wouldn't believe a word that is coming out of his mouth. I would lay the cards on the table and say : " our wedding is on the line. it's me or her". If you catch him again, call it quits. He probably doesn't think there is repercussions to his actions.
2006-10-21 09:23:56 · answer #1 · answered by cyber_music 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you think your heart will be broken if you lose him now, imagine how much more pain you'll be in if he continues to disrespect you AFTER the nuptials. I'm sure you truly love him if you're ready to commit to this fool, but CLEARLY he doesn't love you as much. If he did, it wouldn't be a question whether he would even be in touch with an ex, much less speaking with her in such a manner. I've been where you are, and trust me, it way worse than better. Marriage does not make a bad relationship better. If I can impress upon you anything else, REMEMBER THAT! The man that values you as much as you will him is out there, but you'll never find him wasting your time with this disrespectful, selfish, bozo! You deserve the best! This isn't it. Good Luck, sweetie!!
2006-10-21 16:42:07 · answer #2 · answered by dct1218 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should explain, in detail, your insecurities to your ex. I would feel just as you do if my fiance was talking to an ex like that (AND seeing her!). That's out of line. If you explain WHY you don't want him to see her anymore (or talk to her) then he should understand and respect you. You should be more important than she is. If he refuses to cut off ties with her, then I would think twice about marrying him. It's not like you are being spiteful and telling him who he can and can not be friends with. This is a different situation. This is an ex and that is not right.
2006-10-21 16:25:17 · answer #3 · answered by PT&L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your man is cheating on you. You need to wake up and realize what is really going on. Your heart may be broken, but it will heal. You're better off without a cheater. YOU can find someone better out there who will only want to be with you!!!!
2006-10-21 16:23:32 · answer #4 · answered by blueeyeskenai 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If you have doubts, and you're unhappy about the whole situation, ask yourself this, would you be able to trust him after you're married? He couldn't even reassure you that he will stop talking to his ex. That to me sounds like there's something going on between them. He should concerntrate on just you... I would put my wedding plans on hold...
2006-10-21 18:58:00 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time to cut yourself loose, and consider yourself lucky that you found out now, before you married the dude.
2006-10-21 17:25:17 · answer #6 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is totally cheating on you. no matter how much you love him you have to let him go. hey he's not the only man in this world. if he doesnt love you the way you love him then he doesnt deserve you.
2006-10-21 16:31:03 · answer #7 · answered by Latina Chick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have already lost him. You should give back the ring and leave him for dead. He doesn't deserve you. You can find somebody better than that. I have.
2006-10-21 17:29:10 · answer #8 · answered by Love's Immortal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump that loser, once a cheater, always a cheater.
2006-10-22 03:10:24 · answer #9 · answered by Mummabear 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LISTEN TO AND WATCH THE MUSIC VIDEO BY CARRIE UNDERWOOD CALL "BEFORE HE CHEATS". THAN DO IT
2006-10-21 18:31:07 · answer #10 · answered by SANDI M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋