please help?

Question

ok me and my boifriend just had a fight. we ended it but we still like each over. he say he needs time to think but he still does like me he just doesnt no what to do. i dont want to loose him if you can please give me some advice. thank you x

Answer 1

You have to stop thinking about that "I can't lose him" stuff. Why can't you lose him? There are plenty of people out there who can take his place. If you two are not compatible, then oh well, there are BILLIONS of people out there in the world.

Don't let your life revolve around people.

Answer 2

I know you must be really anxious and restless at the moment. I do feel for you and hope you know you're in control of your life, if you are unhappy, do something about it and by posting a question here is a great 1st proactive step. The key perhaps is to communicate with him without being defensive. If you both still love each other, work on it, make it work, compromise, prioritise and remember, be prepared to admit to one's fault and don't be stubborn. Be honest and open about what you want and see what steps each of you could take to make this work. GOod luck! Dont be scared to talk to him. He will appreciate your willingness to talk, the effort you are making to put thing right and also your faith in him and the relationship! Be brave and smile xx

Answer 3

Depends. Is it your first fight? How long you been together? If the relationship is fairly new then you can call it teething problems, if you have been together a while, there must of been a reason for you to wanna call it a day??

The fact that you still like each other may have to be a thing of the past. Think of your relationship as a butterfly...........if you have called it a day and you didn't really mean it, then if he returns - for the right reasons, then the pair of you are meant to be together.

I hope this helps - good luck. xx

Answer 4

Dosn't sound like he is ready for a full-time girlfriend. Maybe he just needs to play the field for awhile. How long have you been together? Are you still in school? Maybe it would be best to be friends for a while and give it a rest. He'll come around on his own if he truly misses you. Just don't crowd him while he's needing his space right now.

Answer 5

if u and your boyfriend still like each other than there really isnt anything to worry about. people have their moments and sometimes say words that cover up other fears/hurts. maybe fighting is a way to keep balance? could also be very scary to like someone and have a connection. the best thing to do is to let him decide if he really wants to be with you. if you tell him you are cool with taking a break-maybe he'll be cool too! dont forget!!!you have to be in control of you!!!

Answer 6

everyone has their ups and downs in a relationship. and usually over lil things, just give him time and let him calm down and u do the same and hopefully everything will work out again. being together 24/7 can make each other get on each others nerves so just have time for u and ur girls and him and his boys. hope it goes well.

Answer 7

Ask him if you two are ok and if there's anything else he needs to get off his chest. Many times we still have feelings for those we break up with so that's normal. You have to do what's best for you and if he's helping you grow and be a better person then it could be worth working out. Weigh your pro's and con's and I hope it works out. Just be straight with him.

Answer 8

hes probably still mad from the fight and just needs time to cool off and think like he said. just give him the time then ask where you stand dont beg for him back but be honest andsay how you feel.

Answer 9

When a man says what your man said it usually means they need time too think,so give him that give him enough space to let him know that your not going to be sweatin him,so that he can see what a really great person you are and how much he really cares so sit back its a routin guys go thru.he'll be back

Answer 10

DONT BUG HIM! Just give him time. When he comes to you talk to him and tell him how much you care. But remember people are still here he isnt the only one but dont ever give up.