You spend a lot of time investing into letting your loved one know how you feel. Sending music from your heart, cards, poems, etc...
Yet nothing is reciprocated nor often even acknowledged.
Does this mean the mutual feelings are false, maybe your partner doesn't care as much, or think of investing as much as you?
Any ideas?
2006-10-21 09:12:33 · 5 answers · asked by Rock Doll 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hmmmm,,,..Maybe the guy is really,truely in love and has'nt ever really felt that kind of love before and has gotten used to his way of life without it and he does'nt really know that he is'nt returning the favor as much....he shows you in ways that may not be exactly right in front of your eyes but, is more in the way he feels..
I would say give the guy time and let him get used to the love that he has,,be patient with him and I bet he will come around,,just don't lose hope or feel that he does'nt love you,,one day he will show you more love than you could ever think is possible out of him...The 2 of you will have a perfect relationship if there is patience,communication,and true love.......You are loved and very appreciated.
2006-10-21 18:12:51 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
would need to meet your loved one to figure it out. Unfortunately you have the full spectrum of possibility there, ranging from:
he doesn't know how to respond, so he doesn't,
to:
he's a narcissist, and doesn't really think too much about other people
and picking up every possibility in between (lost for words, doesn't like you, Just Not The Verbal Kinda Guy, has other ways of showing it).
If I had to bet? I'd say he has Stuff going on which is his own, and that can be a distraction which results in him neglecting to tell his partner how important she is to him. So, a touch of narcissism, a touch of depression, a touch of shyness.
2006-10-21 17:33:09 · answer #2 · answered by wild_eep 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Luv is a 2 way street.....or you might say it takes 2 to tango.....One can usually tell when the other isn't as interested..!! But so often the one truly in love will fool themself with wishfull thinking.....its a common tale.
2006-10-21 20:15:30 · answer #3 · answered by noname 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't overdo it .........It scares the hell out of us!
Sorry that's just the way we "men" are we are lazy in love and
just don't care to work that hard at it .
We like quiet comfortable silence.
2006-10-21 16:22:28 · answer #4 · answered by curious 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he probably cares about you as much, maybe he's just not into doing all of that stuff
2006-10-21 16:16:36 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋