hey, im 14 and my name's steve and im not so sure if this one gal likes me.....we flirt with eachother but not just with each other......she admitts that i'm the hottest guy out of our grade (32) but is she just saying that?.....all of my friends and hers say that we like eachother....i dont know what to do.....does she like me? should i ask her out? i'm really in a delema here....i dont wanna ask her out if she's gonna say no....we're really good friends!
2006-10-21 09:07:02 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hi Steve- My name is Christina and I am 22 years old. I was in your shoes once, with a friend. He was one of my best friends, and we flirted all the time. I wasn't too sure how he felt about me but I took a chance and asked him out anywase. He said he didn't want to go out with anyone. So then told him that if that's how it was, then the flirting had to stop too. In turn he asked me back out- when I told him "no", because I didn't want it to be just because he wanted to "flirt", he asked me out again, and said he truly had feelings for me. This was 6 years ago. Brandon and I dated for 3 years, and are still to this day Best Friends, even after breaking up.
I say if you really like this girl, it won't hurt to ask. That's the only way you will ever know.. maybe she is asking herself the very same questions that you asked us. Chances are if her friends say that she likes you- the she probably does.
Hope this Helps- good luck!
2006-10-21 09:12:26 · answer #1 · answered by Kryztiena M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you need to do is sit down and talk to her. Get her to tell you her personal feelings around you. If she really likes you then she will open up. Just tell her you feel good about this and you would like her to be your girlfriend. If she really cares then she will say yes. If she doesn't she will say no and you might not be ready. Get to know her more but remember there are other fish in the sea.
2006-10-21 16:10:58 · answer #2 · answered by christen f 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes if u really like someone you have to take a risk and blunge in head first....ask her out, the worst she can do is say no...if u don't ask her out how will you ever know what she truly thinks about you? And you might want to tell her how you feel about her.
2006-10-21 16:12:23 · answer #3 · answered by Nigerian Babe Gurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, you sound like a very nice young boy. Do this- ask her out very casualy - like its no big deal. Like to get some ice cream & chit chat about school or something. Like its a friend thing- if she thinks of it as more- Better yet!
2006-10-21 16:10:53 · answer #4 · answered by madraven4 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should definately ask her out. if u really like her then theres nothing to lose. from experience i know that normally if she says no, it wont reck yalls friendship. just make sure that wen u ask her out make it romantic. i tell this to like every guy who asks...the main thing a girl wants to hear is that she is beautiful ...not hott or sexy...beautiful. good luck! =)
2006-10-21 16:15:14 · answer #5 · answered by xothelittlemermaidox 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh! com'on steve! u have to ask her!
if she tells u the hottest guy ! she will never refuse u!
gal's dont propose! they wait 4 propose's! might be she must be waiting 4 u!!!!!!!!!!! best of luck!
2006-10-21 16:10:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure she likes u steven I am Isabella and I am 11
2006-10-21 16:09:23 · answer #7 · answered by Isabella. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah you should i am 14 going on 15 and i think that you should ask her out!!
2006-10-21 17:27:00 · answer #8 · answered by arielcowgirl_2010 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetie..to tell you the truth, all relationships are confusing. just ask her and thats the only way to find out
2006-10-21 16:09:21 · answer #9 · answered by lost_in_thought 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you should you could never know what happens but imo yes she likes you.
2006-10-21 16:08:59 · answer #10 · answered by Nirvana 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋