I fell in love with a guy so badly that I have cried for 3 weeks straight, it is affecting my life very deeply. He acted like he would do anything to get me now he is avoiding me. I can barely work or function and I have never in my life felt so shocked and unable to function due to someone I've dated. I think I am sinking into clinical depression I have never reacted so badly towards a guy leaving me. I am worried about myself.
My friend used hypnosis to stop smoking and it worked cold turkey. I think a psychiatrist can hypnotize me to forget I ever met him, it hit me the other day that this just may be the answer. Imagine waking up and not ever knowing that I ever knew him. My insurance is great and I am sure it will cover it. Has anyone ever been hypnotized to forget a tragic past, and does it work?
2006-10-21 09:04:18 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
GREAT IDEA!!
I think if u r suffering so much, then try it!! i pray that it works for u as being dumped is so hard.
I know it's hard to believe now, but u WILL get through this. Some advice a man gave to me ...
I said "o , my heart is breaking,,,I m in pain, i m devastated how can i ever get over him??"
He said simply "the next one...."
And it's true!!
Go find a new love!! he WILL be better than this one b-leeve me!!
You will kick yourself for being so upset over this jerk that left u. Rest assured...the same will happen again to him!!
Word of wisdom......
One day, after u have jumped back into life, skipping down the street, smelling the flowers etc...HE will pop back in your life!!
THEN what will u do? that is the question.
Also, this awful feeling u r feeling will mold you into a better person!! You will never treat another like u have been treated. If you decide the NEXT relationship is not for u...u will let that relationship go with maturity & compassion...
LESSON LEARNED ? :)
Hugs & kisses,
Shay
2006-10-21 09:21:37 · answer #1 · answered by Mee-OW =^..^= 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-05 16:51:34 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many of the problems you may be facing could be just the tip of the iceberg on what is really happening in your marriage. I dont mean to scare you but many problems when they either first show up or if they keep reoccurring could be just whats showing from a larger problem that either you or your spouse cannot even see. One of the only things you can do to help is to talk honestly and openly with each other in the marriage. If things become more serious more serious options need to be looked at as possibilities. I have a blog that has more information on some of what I've been writing about. If you feel like checking it out I would completly suggest it. Read here https://tr.im/zNG6L
Love is a choice that is made everyday when you wake up and every night when you go to sleep. Some days you may not feel the original feeling but love isnt a feeling or an emotion. Its an action a verb. Falling out of love may just mean you need to spice things up a little or that you were never in love in the first place. Don't just get out of a marriage just because you don't think you like the person anymore.
2016-07-18 21:43:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Damn, that guy is crazy. Sounds like he's really passionate which is unfortunate, because it suggests he'll overract to bad things as well as good. For example he's obviously not very good at this whole being rejected thing, although you never explained why you broke up in the first place if this relationship was so awesome. Look, it's not your responsibility to take care of him and his mental wellbeing. Just let him be, don't take peoples "advice" and talk to him, its NOT your responsibility and you'll be reinforcing the idea that he can get your attention by being a dumbass. One of my exs had a guy just like this, he was a pain in the *** until she realised leaving him alone was the only way to make him sort himself out. And yes, date other guys, get on with your life, and stop wondering about the past :) take care.
2016-03-18 22:33:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey: What you are experiencing is normal. Crying is the natural course of things in your situation. Go ahead and cry all you want for only the proper mourning and time will heal your wound. I would advice that you surround yourself with family and friends who will help you overcome your sorrow. Be aware, however, that you must choose to move on and let go. Realize that love is a wonderful thing, but it must be mutual to be perfect. Since he didn't love you the same way that you loved him, then you must let him go. In time you will find someone new and be in love again. Hypnosis will not cure you and neither will any of those depression drugs out there that only hurt you and prevent the natural progression of things.
A kiss and a hug for you.
Mr. M on "hypnotized."
2006-10-21 09:11:09 · answer #5 · answered by Humberto M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Allthough I do not know the answer to your question.I just wanted to stop by and give you a big "hug".My husband did the exact same thing that your boyfriend did and we have been married 5 years and togather even longer than that.I can sympathize with you for wanting to forget him and wanting to move on in your life.Its alomst as if he took a piece of you with him when he walked out that door and I know all too well.. those first few minutes of the morning when you wake up and realize what has happened and the unbearable sense of loss that brings.
I know you may not want to hear this.Heck.I am even having a hard time with this one and he only left 6 weeks ago.But what we have to remember is.... that we belong to ourselves first and nobody else.As women we have a tendancy to put ourslves and our needs on the back burner for others (especially significant others).And when you have done that soo long.... Its hard to gain proper perspective on our wants and needs.This is a time for you to think about yourself.Do the things you have always wanted to do.Take a class, Spend a ridiculus amont of money on a manicure and pedicure.Your friends and family are going to be your backbone right now.Lean on them for support, trust me you would not be burdening them.They are there for you, and Love very much.I know work is difficult for you now,but trust me its keeping you togather.Its not fun but it is eliminating a lot of the down time you would have otherwise.I wasent working when my husband left me and all I had was time and honestly I think it made me worse.Dont be afraid to cry and honestly 3 weeks is pretty good.There is no time limit on how your going to get over this.And dont beat yourself up if you think you should be over it by now.Because its truly like grieving over a lost family member.
Remember that your not alone.And there are people out there feeling just as you are sweetheart.Your going to get through it!!!!! I know it and I promise you..... you will.It just takes time.Church is a great place to start too.Whatever your denomination spirtual counceling and guidence is key in a situation like this.
As far as hypnosis goes... It could work but remember your grief is also sub-concious and if they can somehow get him out of your concious mind.The remnats of what was will remain.Trust me if there was a magical way to get over this.There would be no such thing as heartbreak.Sometimes fate deals us these blows and we never understand it until the day comes when your experience becomes useful to you in the future or someone else.What does not kill you sweetie makes you stronger.I will say a prayer for you and light a candle so that you wil find your way.ANd if you ever need someone to talk to my email is wildsunflower2003@yahoo.com. God Bless You.Big hugs!!!
2006-10-21 09:32:05 · answer #6 · answered by serena 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're familiar with hypnosis, then you've no doubt heard of Master Hypnotist Steve G. Jones. His book, "Ultimate Conversational Hypnosis" has been voted as the best hypnosis course ever made. The book is also available in electronic format at: http://www.hypnosistocontrol.net
If you want to get an edge in everyday communication and lead other people towards your goals this is a must read.
2014-09-24 10:27:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This reminds me of Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind....watch it if you haven't. A girl erases this guy from her memory so he erases her. During it though, he thought about all the great memories that he didn't want to forget. It's always painful when you break up with someone. Maybe you should just talk to a psychiatrist and find a healthy way to cope with it. Just forgeting things doesn't really solve any underlying probelms. Good luck.
2006-10-21 09:10:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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This is probably the most important part. With texting, you can stop and think about what you want to say to your ex at each step of the way. Instead of reacting emotionally, you can take your time, figure out the right thing to say (I’ll give you most of it), and be strategic with your ex without saying something that you’ll regret.
2016-04-21 23:08:45 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your Young and still have your whole life ahead.
Go out with your head held high, and the love of your life could be just around the corner.Just remember he wasn't the right one for you.
Best of luck to you,but don't use hypnosis.
2006-10-21 09:16:05 · answer #10 · answered by tottenhamman1971 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋