my 13 year-old niece asked me this question, i told her that she shouldnt be thinking about that kinda stuff, but she still wants an answer, and we're like sisters so i cant bail on her. im a virgin, so i have no clue what to tell her.
2006-10-21 08:53:38 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well.. it's WONDERFUL!
but tell her its an experience that will leave you smiling for days
if its with the right man or woman.
tell her that she'll find out when shes ready.
its something to look forward to LATER IN LIFE =)
2006-10-21 08:56:48 · answer #1 · answered by poochiequeen100 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
I would tel her to wait because even if you think you love someone your virginity is the one thing only you can let go of you want keep it as long as you can know matter what anyone tells you .I was with someone for 8 months.I waited until 6 months into our relationship before i had sex with him. I loved him and i still do.We broke up and i wouldn't say i regretted having sex with him but i wish i would have waited until later in life.I hope I've given you some good advise.
2006-10-21 16:05:28 · answer #2 · answered by Destiny 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sex is much too important too be done casually and risky without education and protection. Sex is not only an important consummation of a couple but is now a life threatening decision if copulating unprotected. It is very possible that the wrong kind of sex could cause tremendous anxiety and health issues. That is a loaded question that really depends on many other variables. Explain the risks.
2006-10-21 16:00:21 · answer #3 · answered by Saladmaster22 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Tell her that it sucks majorly. Tell her she will be in so much pain she will wish was dying-and that she might bleed to death or get some weird disease (like gonosyphaherpalaids) that will eat her alive. Tell her its like eating vegetables. Tell her to go to the highest mountain she can find that has the jaggiest rocks at the bottom and jump. Then she will know what sex is like. Tell her its like waiting in line for 2 hours in a theme park after driving 10 hours to get there, then finally getting to ride, and it only lasts like 2 minutes, then its over, and it wasn't even that good.
2006-10-21 16:03:49 · answer #4 · answered by reconnermom 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
If she's 13 years old let her know that it is thee most disgusting thing you could ever do in life. While having sex you are gambling it can kill you and make you sick in many different ways. Please, shift her away from that topic if you knew what was best. Tell her it isn't what she may think! Bail he out on this one. To be honest i wish i would've waited, these diseases out here isn't worth the pleasure. I work at a hospital, with what i see everyday it's not worth it!
2006-10-21 16:01:33 · answer #5 · answered by "The Dark Angel" 1 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Pure pleasure. It's an experience you have to experience for yourself to understand. I don't recommend that you have sex just to find out what pure pleasure really is though. The chemistry between you and your lover has to be juuuuust right. You will know when and who that is when that special person comes into your life.
2006-10-21 15:58:04 · answer #6 · answered by Vida 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you search on yahoo answers you will find answers for this same question. basically people said that it is a painful feeling that feels good. don't know how true that is cuz I am a guy.
2006-10-21 20:08:15 · answer #7 · answered by losangelesmoons 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her if you have sex before the age of 18 you will curl up into a ball and die instantly..
Nah just tell her the truth. You dont know because you have no experience there .
2006-10-21 15:57:37 · answer #8 · answered by . 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I would tell her get your mind on your grades, not sex.. I would try to find out why and how this question got started?
2006-10-21 15:56:13 · answer #9 · answered by ♥Chamillitary Amberleé♥ 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well that's sweet that you are willing to tell help her even though you don't know how, I think you should just be honest to her and tell her that you don't know either and when the time is right she will find out on her on until then tell her that its not any thing to rush in to
2006-10-21 15:57:45 · answer #10 · answered by frog 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋