I am currently in school for pharmacy and have never been in a real relationship. I want to get married and have kids before my mid 30s, but I feel as if that will never happen because of my schooling. Does anyone have a situation similar to mine? If so, did u eventually find true love??
2006-10-21 08:47:54 · 18 answers · asked by CustomBentley 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-10-21 08:54:01 · update #1
You're 22 years old. Why are you worrying about what is going to happen in your mid-30's? My advice to you is this:
Don't go looking for Love, Love has a way of finding you.
I know, I know, sounds like a whole lot of cliche crap, but it's true. Love will find you as soon as you stop looking for it. Kinda like a watched pot will never boil kind of thing. Go out with your friends!!! Study at the local coffee shop!!! Get involved in your church (if you go to church)!!! It's out there, and it will find you!
2006-10-21 08:53:27 · answer #1 · answered by J C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my situation is different from yours but i have found true love even after being married to a nitemare for 13 years, I used to be a drug councelor and many people were there behind bad relationships an i wud tell these recovering men not be impatient finding another woman, i wud tell them to become somebodys answer to their prayer, turning into the man some woman out there is seeking and or praying for, i also took my own councel and i have found a soul mate that i am very attracted to, we have been toghether 5 years and married for 2 years, the men who took this principle also found true love, it worked for everyone that used the principle of becomeing an answer to somebodys prayer, if u try it u will find that it will work for u also, find out what a man that u would consider somebody u can love and respect and become the woman he would die for and you will find true love if you are willing to commit once it is found, God bless ur efforts
2006-10-21 08:57:18 · answer #2 · answered by menguss 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're still young! stop worrying until you reach 30...
People are getting married at an older age which is a great thing if you ask me. Look at the divorce rate in our country, it's sickening to think that more than half will end up in divorce. It's because these clueless 'children' think they're ready for that type of commitment. Take your time.... loves not going any where.
2006-10-21 08:54:34 · answer #3 · answered by sunray73 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i went throught that. however, i end up having a baby. however, my son is a gift because i always wanted a child however, the relationship didn't work out because my baby father lied about being married. i just would like to say, please don't get depressed because that equals loneliness. then you will find yourself settling for the wrong guy. look what i did. i was depressed wanting to meet mr right, then i became lonely and shut myself from the world. and concentrated on college and work. then i met my baby father. at that time i wasn't emotionally or mentally stable. i was desperate sort to speak. therefore, i was blind and wasn't paying attention to the need to knows of a person. and BAM! all because i was so desperate, lonely, and wwanted mr right now but take your time. take the time out to really get to kow yourself, your desires, your needs and what do you have to offer to your mr right. by doing that , when mr right comes along, you will be ready girl! now, i am foucing on me and my son, and just enjoying people comany. learning and experiencing what are the qualities i want in a man.
good luck
2006-10-21 08:55:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
"school for pharmacy" is what? Pharmacy school? Technician school?
You are only 22 for heavens sake! You are just getting started. Get done with school and there will plenty of time and opportunity.
Hang in their kiddo. Because I was in Pharmacy school, I didn't even start dating until I was 23. But when I got out I had the money, inclination, and plenty of time. You will too!
2006-10-22 18:36:29 · answer #5 · answered by jloertscher 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you look for love, you won't find it!
Best thing to do is just be friendly with a bunch of guys, see which ones you like more, hang around them more, develop relationships, and before you know it, you may find yourself in love.
The point is, don't focus on love. Just focus on being friends and having a good time, and you never know what will follow later on down the road.
2006-10-21 08:52:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with being confident. It may intimidate some people, but your true love, will find this quality irresistible. Don't make the mistake that so many people do. Don't get married out of convenience, don't rush things, love will find you when you least expect it.
2006-10-21 09:01:18 · answer #7 · answered by Schona 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would suggest engaging in social groups/activities while in pursuit of your interests. This may sound like a dull bit of advice, but you would be surprised at how effective exposure is in forming attraction. Being active and making yourself available may cure both of your concerns (depression/love-seeking).
2006-10-21 08:51:39 · answer #8 · answered by QnA 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You will. I met my true love at 29, she was 34! It'll come to you when you least expect it. Unfortunately for me she passed away. That comes when you least expect it too I guess.
If you're in L.A. and you want to make freinds, drop me a line.
2006-10-21 08:52:49 · answer #9 · answered by MisterO 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your 22. You have plenty of time. Dont' sxweat it. Things will happen the way they are suppose to.
2006-10-21 08:51:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋