i went out with my boyfriend for six months. we recently split up for two weeks, he aksked me back n told me how he didnt want to make the mistake of loosing me again and how happy i make him.
how long would you leave it before sleeping with him??
do you have to love someone to sleep with them?? (i love him
however he says he doesnt love me but likes me a rly lot)
i want to but im just not so sure. im still a virgin and he would
be my first time!
2006-10-21 08:46:21 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dont lose your virginity for his sake. Only do it if you feel comportable with the parter and the situation. By the sounds of this, you are still very unsure.
Try to be sure that he wants you, not just sex.
2006-10-21 08:50:56 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
You are sensible to be looking for advice on this one, shame more young girls don't give it the thought you have, because they may have saved themselves a lot of heartache. The answer is a simple one, and you have almost answered it yourself. If in doubt, don't. If you remember this you will always be right. Keep your self respect, and when the time is right you will know, I promise you. You are a good person I can tell, so don't give yourself to someone who is not committed to you-you will feel horrible afterwards, and it is something you will never forget for your whole life. Let your firs time be something you remember with fondness and no regrets. I hope this is of some help, I do know how you can feel a bit pressured into these things, but put yourself first. You deserve to.
2006-10-21 09:02:22 · answer #2 · answered by jonquilblack 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your young you shouldn't be thinking about sex anyway. No matter how old you are, your suppose to wait till your married to have any type of sexual contact with anybody, even if others are doing it, save your own soul, and wait. If you have sex before your married your committing a sin called fornication. The bible says "It's better to marry than to burn" Corinthians 7:9.Keep your innocence and wait till your married, your worth waiting for. Don't sin against your body, and the Lord, wait till your married to have sex with any guy. If you two are meant to be together, then you will be together, and wait till your married. Pray about this situation, and when the right guy comes, neither one of you will want to have sex before your married, and you won't. If the guy your with, and any other guy wants to have sex with you, he's obviously not the one.
2006-10-21 09:06:40 · answer #3 · answered by I ♥ Jesus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can only decide this for yourself. But if he doesnt feel the same about you then it really isn't going anywhere. Personally i think you should save it for somebody who you love and who loves you. But if you want to do it then at least it is somebody you feel a lot for, rather than just anybody.
2006-10-22 02:32:24 · answer #4 · answered by tom l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st dont just sleep with him because u think that will keep him trust me it wont.u hav 2 do what u feel is right+what ur comfy with hun.bt no love doesnt really matter theyre 2 different things.and dont have 2 high hopes my 1st time was rubbish lol good luck xxxxxx
2006-10-21 08:56:09 · answer #5 · answered by Nellynoo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol ur username is very 'appropriate' for the question ur aksing! speaking as part of the male population i personally don't think he's into you that much, and is perhaps only after one thing! he say's he doesn't love you yet he doesn't ever want to lose you again? makes no sense!
be straight with him! and you should find out off his reaction
2006-10-21 08:52:25 · answer #6 · answered by iwanjames 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would personally wait if you are asking us then it is obvious that you are unsure.wait until you are otherwise you might regret it. once you have lost it then thats it.also he says that he doesnt love you do you really want to lose it to someone that doesnt feel the same way as you. also this will test wheather he really does like you by him saying he will wait for you .
2006-10-21 09:14:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if I was you, I would keep your virginity. You can sleep with any one any time, but virginity lost is lost for ever. Wait until u r sure of guy, engaged and married
2006-10-21 08:51:41 · answer #8 · answered by R H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't say how old you are. Never feel pressure in this area. Don't ask a random group of people and then think you should. It is a big step. If uncertain then simply don't.
2006-10-21 08:52:51 · answer #9 · answered by eagledreams 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the way i see it if ur worring about it either ur not ready or hes not the one whicheva it is don't do it if ur not sure!! u will no when u meet the right person nd u r ready because u won't feel worried anymore but it is natural 2 b nervous.
2006-10-21 08:56:35 · answer #10 · answered by gadiscymraes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋