Ok, So I don't think I'm ugly and I have an ok body, so why is it that guys don't ask me out? I went to a club with my very pretty blond friend. She was getting all the attention and I was like an outsider. I had fun because she included me with the guys, but I feel so sad, cuz I was suppose to be getting over a breakup by going out, and nobody paid any attention to me, making me feel worse.
2006-10-21 08:43:20 · 14 answers · asked by nursejuley 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's because I wasn't there.
2006-10-21 08:45:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK,I have been to MANY clubs in my life and NEVER have I found one guy with ANY redeeming qualities. That said-I think that the fact that you were down about your breakup probably showed in your body language and possibly in your demeanor. To get noticed you have to put yourself out there to be noticed. After any breakup,I know I never felt at my most beautiful. I was down and overly critical about my appearance. The kind of attention you were seeking at the club is short lived and is often leaves a negative impression. Take some time to get your head back on straight and then go looking for the right kind of attention.
2006-10-21 15:55:00 · answer #2 · answered by ellasmomma1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't go to a club to get over a break-up. It'll only get you hurt. (you figured out one of the ways already) The best way to find a great guy is to just be nice and talk. When he sees how nice you are then he'll want to get to know you better. It may take a while before a great guy recognizes you, but in the end you'll be glad you built a good relationship with someone you can love. Good luck!
2006-10-21 15:52:35 · answer #3 · answered by S. Elizabeth 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you were in too deep in your just ended relationship, then you probably still have an invisible "stay off, military zone" air around you n this unconsious signals are sending the guys away. but even most guys are known to attracted to a stay off zone, so maybe you are a bit uptight. loosen up a bit.
you might also try going out with a friend who is not glaringly more beautiful than you.
how do you dress? cos presentation is very important. no one will choose a copy Prada if the real thing is right next to it!
good luck.
2006-10-21 15:58:44 · answer #4 · answered by joanne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My Goodness! How the cosmos does spin and twirl! I have been asking the very same for over a year, where is my pretty girl?
I've learned they don't fall from the sky. You got to work at it, smile and wave they tell the models. Be pleasant, be ready, give some sighns of availlability, wear some hottpants, or consider the possibility that the forces that be may be directing you back to ur ex. -?- unless ur glad it's over, sometimes love doesnt loose itself from us so readily, love has divine qualities that knows no boundries or earthly physics. keep the faith
2006-10-21 15:51:36 · answer #5 · answered by NIGHTSHADE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend sucks. A good friend would have shared the attention with you and helped you get your mind off of that old boyfriend.Next time take a real friend with you
2006-10-21 15:49:10 · answer #6 · answered by lily_shaine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know the answer to that but, I do know lots of guys like blondes. Perhaps she was bubbly and outgoing and maybe you looked sad. Perhaps it's too early for you to expect too much. Don't give up.. and chin up.
2006-10-21 15:48:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys who are idiots, gravitate towards blondes only. They aren't worth your attention.
Be yourself, and you will attract the right guy.
2006-10-21 15:48:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pigs think blonds are easy, they thought they had an easy shot, don't pick up men at bars anyhow...
2006-10-21 15:48:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
next time wear a low cut shirt, some tighter clothes and grab some hiney, I guarantee you'll get a reaction
2006-10-21 15:47:04 · answer #10 · answered by yoyoyo!!!!! 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If she is better looking than you she'll get al the attention
2006-10-21 15:45:59 · answer #11 · answered by dontdoit! 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋