Less than 4 months ago I met the man of my dreams. He used to call me every day, and we'd talk for hours, had an amazing time when we got 2-gether. Problem is, when I got upset or frustrated I've texted him nasty messages to vent my anger. Ex "I'm sick of this, maybe we should just be friends." etc. Out of frustration or anger. He's told me if i have something serois to say to just talk to him. (which is the mature thing to do) . Exept I'm very impatient & demanding-so I didn't stop the texts (good & bad) He finally blew up at me & said I make myself out to be "psyco" when i do it & he really needs to think about weather or not he wants to keep seeing me. We ageed to talk about things, after the fight & ended up talking about politics for 3 hours instead. Then i asked him what he wanted to do. he said "Cant we just go back to the way it was". i said yes . (& have stoped texted him) but he's backed off a lot. Did I lose him& screw things up? Should I Give him Space or fight for him?
2006-10-21 08:35:40 · 4 answers · asked by madraven4 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you can try...
2006-10-21 08:38:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Give him some space and stop texting all together.
You need to learn to keep some things internal, hun. Men don't want to hear EVERY SINGLE DETAIL about your day, your moods, your boss, your fellow employee who is plotting to kill you. BIG turn off.
Impatience/demanding that's gotta go. I know your being honest, but that doesn't make it right. Patience is a big plus for anyone, I'm sure you like people to patient with you. Demanding? What do we owe you for you to "demand" anything at all? Not trying to flame you, just wanted you to know what men like and don't. I've never meet a guy who said, "I want a girl who is impatient and demanding, wow... my dream..." never heard that before.
Sum it all up, space, then light conversation, see if it works, cancel your text messaging on your phone.
2006-10-21 08:46:51 · answer #2 · answered by MisterO 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
fate favord the bold. You have a lesson to learn, and it will come ur way until it's learned. You can't be pompus one day, and pias the next. You can't go back to the way it was, you have to deal with what has happened. Honesty, sincerety, and a open mind will serve you well. If ur a b#+ch and unwilling to change, or keep it in check, then by all means sweetheart, reap the whirlwind!
2006-10-21 08:45:26 · answer #3 · answered by NIGHTSHADE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apolgize first. Explain to him what you've just written above and he will understand.
then get back to where the good times were before. He is a good guy. I understand that you are a good woman too. No reason for two good people not too talk, i say!
2006-10-21 08:39:05 · answer #4 · answered by snorkelman_37 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋