we have been to gather about a mounth and i wont to spend the rest of mylife with him
2006-10-21 08:27:27 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
give it time. wait at least 6 months before talking to him about that stuff. if it helps......keep a journal online. somewere he is not going to be able to read. open a email account and email the journal entries back to yourself. least there saved. and he won't have access to them. but.......theres no question there. so all i can give is advice instead of answering a question....give it time. at least 6 months. maybe more.....i say more....up to a couple of years. that would be the absolute least i would talk about marriage.....love and spending the rest of your life with him.
2006-10-21 08:32:10 · answer #1 · answered by Jody SweetG 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then dont you already have him,sometimes it better left said undone then done anyways ,he just might start feeling to high class of himself and will think he got you where he wants you anyways,men of thy2000's boy help them,ok,lol,in due time when your ready i'm sure you'll tell him,but don't put yourself in the situation of telling him only because he told you to,let it come from the heart,love is being there for each other mentally,physically,and spiritually,know that ya in this together (2 as 1),but if you are just 1, just leave the man alone before you break his heart,give it time its just a month,women, women,women,spend the rest of your life with him,you probably don't even really know him that well,sounds like you got out of one relationship and jumped into another and he was just there to pick up the pieces and then we wonder why we get hurt,wake up,im sorry
2006-10-21 15:43:57 · answer #2 · answered by smokin_mini 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
slow down on that "rest of your life thing" cos you cant tell just yet. and how do you meant that you love him but you cant tell him yet you have been 2gether for a month? do you mean you've been friends but not dating or are you dating but afraid if you say love he'll run off? well the long n short of it is, if you love him then tell him, afterall its your love to give and he's lucky its him you choose to give it to.
good luck.
2006-10-21 15:37:47 · answer #3 · answered by joanne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to slow down.Because your going to run into a wall and maybe get your feelings hurt.How does he feel? What you say you don`t know, you better find out before you jump the gun.
2006-10-21 15:37:20 · answer #4 · answered by Step 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, it's only been a month.
Give it some time.......
And you seem really young...
Just WAIT. You don't want to end up marrying someone so soon! It'll be a harder break-up if it happens.
2006-10-21 15:30:01 · answer #5 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm...I think it's too early for that..
you should wait until you're sure about it. wait and see what he thinks about you. if you both are close enough, then talk to him about it. how you both feel about eachother. if he says all the good things that you wanna hear, i guess he'll prupose.
2006-10-21 15:34:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why can't you tell him? If he is married or with someone else than get rid of him. If he is yours than tell him how you feel. If he wants to bolt, then better he do it now!
2006-10-21 15:29:48 · answer #7 · answered by cadodevine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only a month? Are you sure you know enough about him to love him?
2006-10-21 15:39:36 · answer #8 · answered by Ree 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give it time and if it is meant to be there will be a sign
2006-10-21 15:30:05 · answer #9 · answered by goodlookin.mama 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep your mouth shut..
2006-10-21 15:31:31 · answer #10 · answered by dreamy 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋