How would you deal with this situation: My sister came home crying and I thought she is r**ped, but nothi...?

Question

but nothing happend. Actually I was very shocked (freightened) and didn't know how to deal with the situation since we don't have parents (late). She was crying just because she found out that guy she likes has a gf. I know she is crazzy, mad if you will. I can't forget that event. Please comment on this.

Answer 1

I don't know how old your sister is, but you really need to have a talk with her. Obviously, if you assumed the worst, there is some behavior going that would lead to that assumption.

Your fear for her is bigger than this whole situation.

You can't protect her from everything, but you can talk with her, and give her all the information you can.

Answer 2

Rejection is difficult to take no matter how old you are. It sounds like she thought she had a chance with him (real OR imagined) and felt rejected when she found out that he has a girlfriend. Maybe you should have a talk with her about rejection. We all have to face it and we all deal with it in different ways. Give her some tips on how to deal with it in a positive way where she will learn from the experience.

You might also want to talk to her about the difference between a real and an imagined "relationship" (for lack of a better word). If she was that upset, she MUST have thought that whatever she felt for him was being reciprocated. If she can't understand the difference, or continues to react this way, you may think about taking her to a therapist.

Answer 3

she is heart broken she is young she will find someone, as a brother ou shoud leave her alone for a good while untill she is relaxed and calm then approach her and tell her that you are there for her no matter what happens, me and my brother are like best friends he knows when is the right time to talk to me basically when im calm down :)

Answer 4

Talk to her about it. She just has a broken heart. Just be a good brother and be there for her!

Good Luck!