I want to tell up my mind to one of my classmates. But she always wanders about with her friends surrounding her. Its almost impossible for me to call of her separately as I am good looking & among the top rankers,It will take no time to spread a rumor & in no time the rumors would transform themselves in scams.It would have been no cause of worry for me if only I was involved, But she is a extremely good,polite,shy & meritorious girl. My friends turned out to be of no help.I tried to make friendship with her, but it failed because of her shyness.Plz help because its my first crush
2006-10-21 08:17:30 · 8 answers · asked by Sharjyev 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
believe me when i say you should never let friends speak of you on matter relating to relationship they might end up spoiling it. you should know what to say cos you are the one with the feeling not them.
as pertaining this girl, she might as well have a crush on you but want you to make the move.even if she is always with her friend i think you can smuggle her out of them at least for a five minute audience from you, it's my opinion that it is better to know were you stand in someone's heart than to hope against hope that they love when you could have healed your wound and move on if they don't.
again even if she accept you, you made mention of her friends i'll like you to understand that spending quality time together matters alot and i hope she would make that sacrifice.one more thing i want you to look into the eye of yourself and the eyes of the person you love and not what people will say of you,as far as i know people will always talk so that they would'nt have mouth odour. so long as what you do is right i see no reason why you should not do it.
if you are scared that it might affect her too i think you should notify her before they start spreading rumours... they are jealouse and that's all they'll get.
2006-10-21 08:41:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am not understanding your question but I'll give it a try at answering.
If she is always surrounded by friends,I would think she is not very shy. Shy people tend "not" to have many friends and are usually alone.
here's the part I don't understand:
You claim you are"good looking" and among top ranker's?What kind of rumours are you thinking of spreading?
Could it be possible that you are a tad"stuck"on yourself and what you think is her being shy is in actuality, she is avoiding you?
When people are "stuck" on themselves it is usually a big "turnoff"
2006-10-22 04:13:41 · answer #2 · answered by Jo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since shes ur class mate, i am sure you would have the chance atleast to discuss some class topics with her. Just take a quick chance while talking to her and ask her for her email ID.
What more is the best way other than sending her a mail ... where u can express ur emotions and develop a relation?
2006-10-22 00:52:22 · answer #3 · answered by gonzagg 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find a basis to ask her for her aim screen name or msn screen name or whatever you use. people tend to be alot less shy once they are in front of a computer. after that... who knows what may happen. tell her that unless she wants rumors to be spread that it would be better nobody know... but also make sure you tell her that you arent afraid to tell people that you like her just in case she may not be very popular... dont make it seem like you are asking her out... doign it during the course of a conversation... if you are one of those random guys... walk around the school collecting peoples screen names... then randomly walk up to her and ask for hers... then maybe when she goes online you can tell her the whole story of how u faked asking 50 people their screen names just to pick up the courage to go ask her... shed prlly think its cute or something and from there on just do what u do to get her to like you unless she already does.
2006-10-21 15:23:32 · answer #4 · answered by XitachiX 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Really! Whrere are you from? This is one of the weirdest questions I have ever faced.Just head on to her & tell. Forget about those trash scams or whatever. well! This suggestion is not recommended for children below 10 Years! Cause-" choking hazard".
Ha! Ha! Jokin!
2006-10-21 15:30:46 · answer #5 · answered by s0u1 reaver 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In day to day life there are many reasons to get in contact for person like you as you stated your status in class.
Adopt, but don't delay. The way you have described (rumers etc,) is really not good in love.
2006-10-21 22:54:57 · answer #6 · answered by kingofuniverse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u exspect me to believ eur in 7th grade or sum thing ur probably 10 years old only
2006-10-21 17:53:43 · answer #7 · answered by melly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gosh where are you from? ask her to help you with homework if you are really that young,I doubt it though.
2006-10-21 15:22:06 · answer #8 · answered by cheyenne 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋