In middle school i wuz a total nerd! now ive changed and i think that i look pretty good! i wuz expecting to have a boyfriend but i wuz wrong:( it seems that i cant grab the guys attention) so guys....wut turns u on by a gurl besides her looks?
2006-10-21 08:12:59 · 16 answers · asked by lilcutey_2010 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I wouldn't worry too much! Guys aren't as picky as you think. The main thing to remember is to be yourself. That sounds like generic advice, but guys can pick girls out who are trying to act against their nature just to impress somebody, and it's not an attractive thing. Don't try to mimic somebody else's behavior, just relax! To me, a nerdy girl who is comfortable with herself is *way* more attractive than a more mainstream girl who is trying too hard.
Also, guys like girls who like them. Don't be afraid to flirt with a guy, or if you're shy, then just make eye contact and smile. For me, knowing that a girl likes me makes her attractive regardless of her looks, although I guess you've got the looks working for you too. Just be careful not to do too much too fast--you don't want the guy to feel like he's getting ambushed.
The kind of girls that turn me on have their own personality and that have something to say. Girls that hang out in packs and gossip and giggle all the time aren't attractive to me. I like a girl who is funny, but can be serious too. A little smalltalk is okay at first, but she needs to be able to carry on a real conversation. That's probably the most important thing. She needs to have an opinion! Also, I like for a girl to have her own interests and things she likes to do. It doesn't necessarily have to be stuff that I like, but it helps me relate to her and get to know her better.
2006-10-21 08:39:52 · answer #1 · answered by Dave B. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Initial reactions usually start, unfortunately for some, with physical attributes.
This can be boosted by clothes, for example, personally I like very feminin type women, so if she wears skirts that a little revealing and shows off her best parts, that tends to get my attention. If you're wearing baggy jeans and sweatshirts, unless you are REALLY gorgeous, I wouldn't even spit at ya.
Finally and most importantly, personality and confidence. You have to glow from within. People will pick it up, I guarantee. Be nice, and be happy, and just feel good about youself and have fun. Don't be desperate an "look" for a guy, just get to know a few and see if sparks fly.
2006-10-21 08:22:10 · answer #2 · answered by MisterO 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may still have the same "self-image" you had before. Your inner beliefs about yourself need to change to match your new outer appearance. Every day, for 10 minutes, close your eyes and imagine that you're acting the way you would like towards guys, and that they're reacting towards you the way you would like. Add as much emotion and belief to your imagination as you can. Keep doing this, every single day. You will start to notice that reality will reflect what you are imagining. You will notice more confidence in your behavior, and better behavior towards you from guys. You will find that you are more naturally playful and flirtatious. You're new inner qualities will be as attractive as you are now on the outside. Trust me, this will work for you.
2006-10-21 08:29:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you provide him your variety? Did you play extreme perplexing-to-get? possibly he did no longer get the vibe which you liked him returned. exchange into he eating? which could convey out the flirty fringe of an in any different case shy guy. If its in basic terms been 2 days in view which you met him, there'll probable be possibilities interior the destiny to occasion and you gets a feeling if he nevertheless likes you or no longer. there's a million motives he might act the way he's, I truthfully do no longer understand what he exchange into thinking in basic terms having been given some sentences approximately him. possibly he's doing his very own version of perplexing to get and needs to attend some days earlier calling you. Who is conscious! provide it a while and notice what pans out. in case you somewhat like him that lots you could continually call him first!
2016-10-15 06:41:54 · answer #4 · answered by Erika 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The ability to carry on an intelligent converstaion, also a girl with a good sense of humor turns me on.
2006-10-21 08:22:25 · answer #5 · answered by snoop_dougie_doug04 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that she's a nice, caring, not mean, friendly, not trivial and petty, young woman who I want to bring home to my parents and say "I want to marry this woman because she's really admirable and I love her." It might take years for some guy to be smart enough to realize what a great package you are. Good luck, and patience in your wait. It will be rewarded.
2006-10-21 08:19:13 · answer #6 · answered by David W 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be nice, smile and be smart! Don't be in any big hurry to find a guy! You don't need to GRAB attention, just have fun, be yourself, smile and say to someone who you think is cute and see what happens!
2006-10-21 08:16:10 · answer #7 · answered by cadodevine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry guys will sniff your change. Be patient. Don't be in a hurry. Be helpfull and friendly. Always smile and be cool.
2006-10-21 08:18:26 · answer #8 · answered by DIm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Flirting A LOT
2006-10-21 08:18:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Flirting A LOT
2006-10-21 08:16:51 · answer #10 · answered by WIDE OUTxx0017 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋