if no one has asked u out in over a year(im in middle school but still) does that mean ur one of the guys, u dont noe very many guy friends, or ur just not attractive?
btw... im 5'2" blond and very skinny (a-cup) just so u can get a picture
2006-10-21 07:41:12 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it means you're not aggressive and not putting yourself out there enough. are you going to bars, or churches or where guys go? are you playing sports with them? are you online pursuing? there's lots to do, lots... don't you dare waste that skinny flexible cute body babe! hey, i'm having my own troubles about the opposite sex, can you help me on as many of these questions as you can today?
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2006-10-21 07:49:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you are in middle school and in middle school the boys are not very mature. Girls mature earlier than guys.
Also you should talk to more guys and make friends because a guy will be afraid to ask you out without talking to you first. Like I would be afraid to just go and ask a girl out.
It is one of the reasons above. And not that you are unattractive.
5'2 is a perfect height and nothing wrong with it. You are blond and I can say majority of guys like blondes. You are skinny and you know one thing, being skinny is the fashion right now and not being fat. a-cup is fine as when I walk around the street I see a lot of girls with small breasts with a guy then the girls with large breasts.
Just be yourself and you don't even have to be friends with a guy, just say hi and if possible just talk. That is enough for a guy to ask you out.
Good luck and I hope very soon your dream guy asks you out.
2006-10-21 14:58:40 · answer #2 · answered by Mr Business 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had heard on many occasions that the really pretty girls just want to be asked out. Everyone is intimidated by them and they never get any dates. I tried that. I asked out this foxy chic to a big school dance. She turned me down. OK. So I asked some one else. The first girl ended up going with her grandfather because on one else asked her out. Or at least no one she felt was in her class. I attended the UofW - a very liberal school and could not get a date for almost a year - and I am no nerd. I was captain of the basketball team and lettered in football. Sometimes the stars are against you. Keep smiling and look to the future - it can only get better. Mine did.
2006-10-21 15:00:42 · answer #3 · answered by bocasbeachbum 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u still have ur whole life ahead of u like high school, college. dont worry about it. a guy will ask u out when u least expect it to. Ur only in middle school so give it time. Plus focus on school and not on guys. they can sometimes be trouble. Dont worry ur time will come
peace stacy
2006-10-21 14:55:02 · answer #4 · answered by sue 1 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you will have plenty of time to date.Don't worry as you get older guys will notice you and you don't even have to dress or act a certain way. All it will take is time and maturity. Have fun and don't jump on the 1st guy that comes along. Respect yourself and it will go along way in keeping you out of trouble. Remember would you want your mom and dad to be proud of you or not.
2006-10-21 15:07:44 · answer #5 · answered by get the facts right 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're still very young and alot of guys are still fairly shy and inexperienced with women at your age .
I wouldn't worry too much and you may want to find a guy who's not a friend that could be your problem.
2006-10-21 14:45:22 · answer #6 · answered by . 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Neither. It just means the right guy isn't there yet or they're too shy to tell you. Why would you worry anyways, you're still a kid?
2006-10-21 14:43:53 · answer #7 · answered by catch22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am 15, a sophomore, and have not once been asked out in my entire life.
Just wait for the right guy. You'll find him.
2006-10-21 14:53:07 · answer #8 · answered by Kittyfish 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes it takes guys, especially young ones, a while to get over their fascination with girls who have more obvious charms.
use your current freedom to explore things that interest you.
that way, when you look back on this time you won't feel like you wasted it.
2006-10-21 14:48:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it doesnt matter, middle school relationships arent serious anyway. just stay yourself, in a couple years you'll get a guy. thats when it really matters.
2006-10-21 14:44:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋