My ex is.......?

Question

My ex boyfriend contacted me on msn today and I was surprised cuz we haven't spoken in 4 months. He use to say hi to me after he ended it , but he stopped that. That's why I was so surprised when he said hi today. But I don’t know why he contacted me because we only dated for one month, it was sweet and innocent (never went past kissing cuz he knows I’m saving myself for marriage) and he ended it 8 months ago, so why would he still even care?Neways guys, WHY do you so this to your ex-girlfriends? I mean you dump a girl, so why do you contact her later and ask all these nosy questions? My ex was so nosy when he said hi, asking me all these questions, especially about what I wanted to do after university. But what did he REALLY want to know? Why is my ex still curious?

I know some may say he was just saying hi to be friendly or was just curious, but WHY is he still trying to be nice or why does he still care what goes on in my life? Guys are so
weird, they dump a girl, but still wanna know what goes on in her life, WHY??????

Answer 1

He cares for you as a friend and he just wanted to catch up with you.

Answer 2

Becareful... In my experience... and it happends alot w/ exes, is that they are getting bored, and/or are lonely. GUys..... what can you do. Also, was he in a relationship that you know of. Sometimes I noticed that when they find someone else they back off. then they get dumped or it doesn't work out.... and he gets lonely again.

Sorry that your havin' troubles. Just be careful.. he might not just want another friends.

Answer 3

He may be asking you what your plans are because he just might want to be in your future!

Answer 4

good friends are hard to find dont get your hopes up and be let down