i have a HUGE crush on this guy andhe knows it the only problem is that my freind went ahead and told him that i liked him so now he thinks that i am super shy. after he found out he would stare at me whenever he saw me. i thought that was a good thing so i asked my friend to find out what he thought bout me and the guy i liked said that he had a girlfriend i think that hes lying how can i find out what he really thinks about me ??? and how can i make him be attracted to me???
2006-10-21 07:34:47 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
never play sexy only cute and shes probably doing that so she can get ahed to him than you. all you haveta do is tell someone else to ask him. After that just talk to him and tell him it was a joke when you find out he is single then you play cute AND sexy
2006-10-21 07:39:03 · answer #1 · answered by Banstaman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The old eye contact trick. When you sitting in school (or wherever you are) look at him until he looks at you. When he does, stare into his eyes for no more then 4 seconds but no less than 2 before looking away. If he holds your gaze for that long it's a good sign. After a few minutes look back at him. If he is looking at you and holds your gaze (maybe even with a smile!) he has got to like you.
2006-10-23 16:36:20 · answer #2 · answered by Romeoashg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, first of all..as everyone will tell you here.....you can't make anyone be attracted to you. either they are or they aren't.
how about you write him a letter with your own thoughts and feelings on them. with your phone number. then you can ask him yourself and not get information second hand. give him the letter yourself. if going out with him and being b/f-g/f is your goal...at some point your going to have to talk to him yourself. he will also be able to see you up close and look into your eyes when you give him the letter.
2006-10-21 14:40:56 · answer #3 · answered by Jody SweetG 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What works for me is just giving him a little space. Leave him alone for a while. Then After you havn't talked to him for a while. Just go up to him and be like calm just talk like you would talk to your bestfriend or something "Hows life" "Do you have cable?, Have you watched Laguna Beach?" Just be chill. After you start talking to him for like lets say 3 weeks he'll see that you really want to get to know him. Thats what I'm going through right now. But don't make it obvious though. If you make it seam that you like him so much and want to talk to him everysecond. He'll think that your desprite. and you don't want that now do you? and also. I tend to read seventeen magazine alot. That should help. (:
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2006-10-21 14:43:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you just ask how you can "make" him be attracted to you?? What are you 12? Come on, he knows you like him, if he wants you he will let you know.
2006-10-21 14:39:03 · answer #5 · answered by john c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello If he says he has a girl then respect that,If he drop her for you don't he would drop you for someone else,You took your shot move on and stop looking for trouble or you just might find it.
2006-10-21 14:40:48 · answer #6 · answered by Big Eagle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's not attracted to you, he's just not. There can be a LOT of reasons for this.
2006-10-21 14:36:52 · answer #7 · answered by Kittyfish 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to talk to him and stop getting second opinions or use some messengers.
2006-10-21 14:38:06 · answer #8 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Show your smile while making eye contact and play hard to get,but not to HARD to get!!!
2006-10-21 14:36:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant make him be attracted to you. it just doesnt work like that
2006-10-21 14:37:42 · answer #10 · answered by LongingForYourTouch 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋